Unokubala njani ubudala beminyaka yobubele?
Ukuqala kwexesha lokunyusa lixesha lixesha elikhawulezayo lokukhulelwa ubomi obutsha. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba akuyena wonke umntu owaziyo lo mhla, kwaye ukuba bayakwenza, umzuzu ochanekileyo wokufakelwa kweqanda le-fetal aziwazanga, kuba oku kuya kwenzeka ezinsukwini ezimbalwa emva kokulala ngesondo. Ukongezelela, akukho mntu owaziyo xa i-ovum idibana ne-sperm, kwaye i-fusion yayo yenzeke.
Yingakho iqondo lexesha lokunyamezela lichanekile. Ngokwenkqubo yesifo somzimba kuyinto yesiko ukusebenzisa indlela yokunqanda umda we-fetus, njengokwethenjelwa ngakumbi. Kubalwa ekuqaleni kwexesha elidlulileyo leenyanga, kwaye iiveki ezimbini ziza kuqala.
Kutheni kubalulekile ixesha? Kwaye ukuze ukwazi usuku lokuphela kokukhulelwa, oko kukuzalwa. Emva kwakho konke, ukuqhaqhaqhaqhazela nokunyamezela kuyingozi ngokufanayo kubomi bentsana, kwaye ukukwazi ukukunceda xa kungenakusasa (phambi kweeveki ezingama-38) okanye ukuhanjelwa kwezibonelelo (emva kweveki ezingama-42), kufuneka ukwazi ngokuchanekileyo.
Ukuphela kwexesha lokunyamezela liyinto ekhangayo, emva koko,
Ukuba ngenxa yesizathu esithile, ngokwexesha lokuya esikhathini, akunakwenzeka ukubala ixesha ngenxa yokungabikho kwayo (ukuncelisa, ukuzala kwangoku nje, ukuphazamiseka kwe-hormonal) Ixesha elichanekileyo linokuthi lisetyenziswe ukususela kwisibhozo ukuya kweyeshumi elinesibhozo seveki yokukhulelwa. Yiyo yokuxilongwa okuya kuchonga ngokuchanekileyo iminyaka yobudala bomntwana ngobungakanani bayo.