Ngubani owathi kuphela isiqingatha esomeleleyo sobuntu siphula iipensele kunye ne-gnaws kwisiseko sezipikili, uzama ukubhala isimemezelo sokuthandana nentombi yakhe? Amantombazana amnandi amaninzi alinganisa igumbi ekuhambeni, ezama ukucinga ngomntu ofanelekileyo wokuvakalisa uthando.
Isibhengezo sothando kumntu obhaliweyo
Bhala ileta echukumisayo kumntu onokumemezela uthando-yiyo yekhulu lokugqibela? Kodwa hayi, amaxesha kaTatyana Larina awayekude kakhulu nathi, kwaye namhlanje ukunyamezela nokuthandana kwothando, olufunyenwe kwimvulophu ecocekileyo, kuya kumkholisa kumntu. Kuphela indlela yokubhala eso sivumo, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba ubhale ntoni?
- Ukuba sele usuzimisele ukubhalela ukuvuma kwakho uthando kwindlela ebhaliweyo, ubhalele indoda yakho ethandekayo yileta yinyani, ingabi yikhompyutha, ungalindi ukushicilela imiyalezo yakho kumshicileli. Ileta kufuneka ibhalwe ngesandla, awukwazi ukuthembela into enokuthandana nayo ngomshini ogqithisayo. Kwiminyaka yethu yobuchwepheshe bezobuchwepheshe, sele kunzima ukuba abaninzi bakhumbule indlela enhle ngayo ukubonisa iileta, ngoko ke phambi kokuba ubhale ileta, sebenzisa i-calligraphy kwiphepha elilodwa lephepha.
- Ewe, kungekhona wonke umntu owaziyo ukuvakalisa iingcamango neemvakalelo kakuhle ngamazwi, kodwa kulungele ukuzama. Kwaye ukwenza ukuvuma ngothando kumntu omhle kuya kunceda apha ubuchule - cinga oko ubhala kuwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, iincwadana malunga nama-silky curls kunye nelizwi elimnene liya kufuneka lisuswe, kodwa zonke izinto zingasala. Bhala ukuze ujabule ukufunda lo myalezo, ngoko umntu wakho othandekayo uya kuqonda kwaye azive zonke izinto ofuna ukuzithetha kuye.
- Nangona ukuvakaliswa kancinci kothando kufuna umqondiso, awufuni ukuba umntu wakho angene kwiimeko ezihlazo, ecinga ukuba umqeshwa onamahloni ubhala kuye? Ngoko qiniseka ukuba ufake igama lakho ekupheleni kweleta. Amacebo, njengokuba "iliso elingeke likhuphe kuwe kwiinkampani" kungcono ukuphepha.
- Uyakhumbula iibhayisikobho malunga nexesha elide? Apho i-gentlemen ivela kubafazi bathanda iileta kwiimvulophu ezicocekileyo. Yenza uvumo lwakho luthando kumntu oluthandana kakhulu, ufeze amanzi akho angasese angasese kwiphepha ngomyalezo. Yilumkele ukuba ungadluli - itekisi ecocekileyo kakhulu ayiyi kubangela intliziyo, kodwa intloko.
Isibhengezo sokuqala sothando ngomntu
Indoda ethandekayo ifuna ukubonisa ubungqina obungathandekiyo bothando, okokuba uya kukhumbula le mzuzu ixesha elide. Kule meko, awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwendalo. Ungakwazi ukuhlala ubusuku bonke ubhale imibongo yekhethiweyo yakho, kwaye kusasa ufunde kuye. Ukuba umntu wakho unomdla, ufumana ukuvuma okumnandi kothando. Ngaphambi kokuba uthethe into enjalo, qiniseka nje ukuba ubukho bobuhle bobuhle, kodwa nokuba kuhambelana neyakho. Ngaphandle koko, uphukise umntu ngokungazi.
Ngamanye amaxesha unokuva kwiingqondo zengqondo ukuba isidlo esishushu esilindelwe indoda emva komsebenzi osisigxina sinokumemezela ngakumbi uthando - umfazi uyakhathalela, ngoko ke uvakalelwa. Abanye abafazi baxhasana nale ngxelo ebhalwe phantsi kwi-vase kunye ne-candy okanye i-cream kwikheke (i-ketchup kwi-pizza esanda kubhaka) "Ndiyakuthanda."
Amanye amabhinqa abhala i-block yonke yamacwecwe ngamagama othando aze adlule nayo yonke imoto yomntu othandekayo. Uhlobo olungenakuphikiswa, amadoda amaninzi ngenxa yokuthukuthela okunjalo "ngokugwinya" akubongi
Ukwazisa uthando kumntu otshatileyo
Ungatsho ngokuphindwe kabini ukuba akulungile ukudibana nabantu abatshatileyo, kwaye awukwazi ukwakha inhlekelele yomnye umntu. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba sifunde ukuba indoda isatshatile, isele isithandana naye, isetyenziswe ukuqhubela phambili (ngokubhekiselele ngenxa yokusebenza kanzima). Nento oyenzayo, qhubeka uziva ngayo? Hayi, kufuneka ndithethe. Mhlawumbi, kule meko kukulungele ukwenza oku, ukhangela amehlo akhe - imimangalo kunye nemiyalezo eyimfihlo ingawela ezandleni zomfazi wayo. Ukuba ubhalela ileta, ngoko-ke ungayifaka okanye uyibeke ephaketheni lakho, kodwa qiniseka ukuxelela loo mntu ukuba afunde le leta ngaphambi kokudibana nomfazi wakhe.