Yonke intombazana iphupha lokuba yinkosikazi, kwaye isikhulu sakhe kufuneka sibe yinduna ehashe elimhlophe. Ngelishwa, ubomi buzenza izilungiso zalo kwaye esikhundleni seenkosana sihlala sidibana ... kakuhle, kungekhona nje iinkosana. Kwiimpawu zengqondo zabanye abantu kwaye ziya kuxutyushwa.
I-Psychology yesalathisi yesilisa
Yenza kuphela ukugcinwa okwenziwe ngengqondo kuphela kubantu ababaxhaphaza. Ngokuqhelekileyo bayakhuseleka kakhulu, kodwa bazama ukungabonakali ngaphandle. Abaphathi bee-manipulators banokuthi babonise ubugwenxa , kwiimeko xa bengasongelwa. Izona "zi-trolls" ezintle kakhulu kwi-Intanethi zikho nje kuphela.
Ukususela kwimbono yeengqondo, abantu abahlukumezayo abanakukwazi ukuthanda uthando nonke, kwaye kubo, ubudlelwane nomfazi kuphela yindlela yokufumana inzuzo kwimali, imihla ngemihla, ngokomzwelo okanye ngokwesondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntu onjalo akanako ukuva iimvakalelo zabantu, kuba ngumhlobo okanye uthando. Emva kwakho konke, ukwenzela ukwakha ubudlelwane obusekelwe kuvelwano kunye nokuthembela, kungekhona kwinzuzo kunye nomdla wobugovu, kufuneka ube ngumntu onelungelo. Kuthetha - ukuthanda nokwamkela wena kunye nehlabathi lonke, kunye nazo zonke iziphoso zalo.
I-Psychology yomntu-egoist
Kwimimiselo yangaphambili, sathetha ngokuzithandana njengomgangatho obalulekileyo womntu onelaneleyo. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi banokudibanisa ukuzithandana kunye nokuzingca, kodwa oku akunjalo into efanayo. I-Egoism - i-warped, i-hypertrophied, njengoko iboniswe kwisimo esibucayi se-mirror of self-love. Ngokuba i-egoist, ixabiso elipheleleyo liphethe ubuntu bakhe, ubona abanye abantu nje njengendlela yokufezekisa iinjongo zakhe. Indoda enjalo isoloko inomdla kuye. Zonke iingxoxo ezizungezile zijikeleza kumntu othandekayo. Ewe, kukho intetho, malunga nomhlaba wonke ujikeleze ubuntu bakhe. Ngomntu we-egoist, kukho ezimbini iingcamango zombono - zakhe kunye nokungalunganga. Kwimbambano, uya kuhlala emela umbono wakhe, engaqwalaselanga iingxabano zeentshaba, nokuba zizinzima. Usebenza, uhlala ekhokelwa kuphela yiminqweno kunye nezinto azikhethayo.
Ngokombono weengqondo kunye nokuqonda, ibhinqa ekujonganeni nomntu onjalo kufuneka ikwazi ukukhusela iminqweno yakhe, kwaye ayisoloko ihamba ngendlela yakhe. Kuphela ke uya kukuhlonela kwaye ubaleke naye.
I-Psychology yomnini womntu
Enyanisweni, bonke abantu ngandlela-thile - abanini. Kwaye kwimeko yokujonga ingqondo, oku kubangelwa kukuba umntu, kunzima ukunyamezela ukunyaniseka, ngenxa yokuba. iyonakalisa ukuzithemba kwakhe kukuba unguyise wabantwana bakhe bhinqa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku akunakuchukumisa ngokukhethekileyo ulwalamano. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko ezinzima kakhulu, xa isicatshulwa somnini sakhula sibe sisifo. Amadoda anjalo ayabetha isibhinqa ngomfazi wakhe, amkhokele ekungeneni. Umzekelo, omnye unyanzelekile ukuba agqoke phantse isigqubuthelo, ukunika ingxelo nganye yesibini esetyenziswe ngaphandle kwendawo yakhe yombono, njl. kunye nezinye.
Abanikazi besilisa bahlala bekhuselekile kakhulu, ekukhangeni kwabo kubhinqa. Oku kuziphatha kubantu abakhulu kakhulu kunabo abazithandayo. Nangona kukho nabanikazi abanjalo abanengqondo "ukuya ngakwesobunxele," kwaye bagweba, njengoko bethetha, abanye bebodwa.
I-Psychology yindoda enobuqili
Kukho ezimbini iindidi zomshicileli apha:
- "Ingonyama-ingonyama" yindoda enamandla kakhulu, ejwayele wonke umntu othobelayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo unendawo ephakamileyo emphakathini - umphathi omkhulu, usomashishini. Ngokuqhelekileyo, lo ngumntu osetyenziselwa ukukhokela kwaye akwazi ukuba ilizwi lakhe lingabuzwa njani.
- "I-tyrant-jackal" - ngokungafani nohlobo oludlulileyo, ebomini akukho nto eninzi eye yaphunyezwa, oko kukuzimela ngokwezindleko zekhaya. Mhlawumbi ngezinye izihlandlo, kwaye uphakamise isandla sakhe, kwaye umemeza xa isimo sengqondo sisimbi. Nangona kunjalo, xa usendleleni yakhe umntu onamandla kunabo, okanye ngaphezulu
ngesimo, okanye nje kunokwenza utshintsho, ngokukhawuleza liba yidalwa yokuthuthumela kunye nokukhohlisa.
I-Psychology yomntu onobukrakra
Okokuqala, makhe sichaze ngokwemiqathango: umntu onobukrakra, lo akuyena umntu ongafuni ukuzithobela zonke iifom zezazi aze amgcwalise ngezipho. Okuqhelekileyo, nokuba ummeli oqhelekileyo walolu hlobo lomntu nguPlyushkin, iqhawe lencwadana nguN. Gogol "Imiphefumlo Efileyo." Ngethamsanqa, ngobomi bokwenene abalinganiswa abanjalo banqabile. Nangona kunjalo, baninzi abalimi abanqabileyo abangafuni ukuqonda ukuba ezi bhotile ezintle zithandane azikho enye "i-bbish sham", kodwa ukugqibela kwexesha lexesha, ngokufanelekileyo, kuyimfuneko ekugqibeleni kwindoda ehloniphekileyo.