Amantombazana amaninzi anomdla kwi-psychology yamadoda xa behlukana. Emva koko, esidlangalaleni, banokuziphatha njengokungathi akukho nto eyenzekayo, njengokungathi zivakalelwa kwaye azikhathazeki nhlobo. Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba ibhinqa libonise isimo sengqondo kuyo yonke imizuzu ekubonakala kwayo yonke into, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha bayamangalisa ukukhathazeka kwamadoda. Kodwa ngaba kunjalo?
I-Psychology yomntu emva kokuhlukana
Injongo yokuqala kunye nenjongo yomntu emva kokuhlukana nentombazana kukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho mntu uyayiqonda ukuba umonakalisa ukuba alahlekelwe nguye. Ngoko ke, ngokuqhelekileyo kuya kuba mnandi, kunamandla kunye nokuvuya. Usizi lwakhe lubonakaliswa kwelinye:
- unqwenela ukusela;
- Uzama ukutyelela iinkampani ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye uyazizonwabisa;
- ufumana umdlalo ogqithiseleyo njengokuhamba ngokukhawuleza okanye i-motocross;
- uqala ukudukisa amantombazana kwiibhetshi aze adibanise ubusuku obunye.
Ewe, amantombazana aziphatha ngokungafaniyo: abiza umhlobo othembekileyo ukuba ancede kwaye akhononde, okanye aze afake izindlu aze azivelele iintlungu.
I-Psychology yomntu ohlukanisile
Umntu oqhawule umtshato unamava amaninzi, kunye neyona nto eyayilungileyo ibalulekile. Ukuvakalelwa kwendoda eyashiya intsapho, kunye neengqondo zendoda eshiyiweyo-ezimbini zihluke kakhulu, ziphantse izinto eziphambili. Yaye ukuba uhlobo lokuqala luya kuhlala lusaphila, kodwa ngokubanzi lujamelane nemvakalelo , ngoko ke okwesibini kuya kuzama ukuzama ukuziphindisela kubasetyhini - kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni.
I-Psychology yendoda enye iyahluka. Abanye babo baziva bengakhululeki njengabalingani kwaye bazame ukufumana olunye ulwalamano ngokukhawuleza, abanye bafumana ukusetyenziswa kule nxaxheba ukuba kunzima ukuza kubo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokubanzi, ukuba amava afunyenwe ngumtshato ubuncinane ngempumelelo ethile, umntu onjalo akayi kutsala umnikelo xa edibana naye uthando.