Zingaphi izenzo ezintle nezakhayo ezenziwa egameni levakalelo ezibalulekileyo emhlabeni, zothando! Enyanisweni, kukho umgca wecala kwi-salivere: abaninzi abanelisekile ngenxa yalo. Nangona kukho ukuphakama okuphezulu ukuba loo nto okanye intombazana ayinakwenzeka okanye ayizange ifune ukubona iimpawu zothando omnye komnye.
5 iimpawu zokwenene uthando
- Akukho zihlandlo eziqhelekileyo . Amadoda anako zonke iintlobo zeentlanga. Nangona uhlala ngaphesheya kwesi sixeko, unokuzibonakalisa ngokukhawuleza kwi-cafe yakhe eyintandokazi, ukwenzela ukuba ubuncinci bexesha lokubona intanda yakhe. Musa ukulibala ukuba uphawu lokuqala lothando lwakhe kukukhangela okuncinci, nangona kungenangqondo, isizathu sokubiza kunye nokudibana naye. Yaye xa ebona isigxina sakhe sesibini, le nsizwa ikwazi "ukugima ulwimi" ngokukhawuleza kwaye ingazi ukuba ungathini kuye. Ikhetho alinakukhutshwa ngaphandle kokuba kwintlanganiso uya kuguqula ngokukhawuleza ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwaye, umzekelo, kuyo ingxolo engakaze ivele ivuke.
- Imizobo . Kananjalo uphawu lokubonakalisa uthando lokwenene, izazi zeengqondo zibiza umnxeba, xa umntu ehlala exhomekeke kwinto yamaphupha akhe. Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba ngamanye amaxesha abameli bezocwangco zesini ngokufanelekileyo le ntshukumo ayinakuyibona. Ukongeza, loo mfana uya kuzama ukuba yinxalenye yendawo yakhe, echaphazela ngezandla zakhe ngokukhawuleza, eqonda emva kwesihlalo ahlala kuyo.
- EziPhambili . Lowo ongazange ahlale esithandweni, kwaye intliziyo yakhe igcwele uthando, kubonakala ukuxabisa ubomi obutsha, izinto eziza kuqala, utshintsho lwehlabathi. Ngexesha elifanayo, ukuhambelana kwabalinganiswa bendoda kunye nentombazana ibonakala, ukusuka kwicala kubonakala ngathi bangabangani abadala abakwaziyo ukunceda omnye nomnye. Ngoko, umntu othandwayo ufuna ukuba intanda yakhe ikhuselekile kwaye ikhululekile. Ufuna ukumxelela ukuba nguye onokuyilungisa intsapho. Kwinqanaba elincinane, umfazi,
umgcini wekhaya, unako ukuphawula oku. - Inzala . Nangona umntu ekwazi ukusilela kwakhe, akakho phantsi kweemeko, akukho nto ingavumelani ngayo, okuyiyo impawu ebalulekileyo yothando lwakhe. Kubalulekile kukuba uya kuzama ukufunda ngaye, iimfuno zakhe, izinto ezithandwayo kunye nokunye. Ngexesha le ngxoxo uyayiphulaphula intombazana, iphendule ngokunyanisekileyo imibuzo yakhe.
- Amehlo akhe athetha kakhulu . Umthandi ufuna ukuhlala ekhangele emehlweni aloo uphuphayo malunga neyure. Bonke abantu bathanda amehlo, kwaye ngoko banokufunda ngaphezu kokuva.