Xa sifuna uthando, nathi sidinga umncedisi othembekileyo kunye nomcebisi, phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko, akukho ntombi, akukho dade, akukho mama. Kwiimeko ezinjalo ezintle, intombazana inokukholwa kuphela ekuncedeni kwamagunya aphezulu - ngokungaqhelekanga, ukungabi namkhethe, kunye nokuthobela. Ukuba udinga uncedo, ukuba unomdla, kwaye awusenako amandla okufuna ukuqonda emhlabeni, phendukela kuThixo ngomthandazo ngenxa yothando lomntu, ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kufumana isiluleko esisebenzayo kunye ncedo olukhawulezayo.
Imithandazo yeMatrona
Abangcwele, iingelosi ezingumgcini kunye noMama bakaThixo bangumlamli phakathi komntu noThixo. Uyingcwele ekhethiweyo ngokuqinisekileyo ngumbambiso womthandazo oqinileyo wothando lomntu, emva koko, nangona kunjalo uhlambalazo lungazwakala, elowo lwawo "olukhethekileyo", oluxhomekeka kwizinto ezilungileyo ezenziwa ngabangcwele ngexesha lokuphila kwabo. Omnye waphilisa abagulayo, umntu wancedisa ukufumana uthando, umntu wasuka ekuxhomekeke kunzima. Emva kokufa kwabo baqhubeka bezenzo zabo, kodwa babuyele kubo ngemithandazo.
Ngokuthandana, umtshato, intlalontle kwintsapho ubuze uMatron oyiNgcwele:
"Mama osikelelekileyo uMatrono, umphefumlo ezulwini phambi kweSihlalo sobukhosi sikaThixo esizayo, kunye nemizimba yabo ephumla emhlabeni, kunye nemimangaliso eyahlukahlukeneyo evela phezulu ngentando. Namhlanje, ngesiso sakho esinomusa, isono, iintlungu, ukugula kunye nezilingo zesono, Ngoku unesihe kuthi, usiphelise, uphilise izifo zethu, kuThixo, ngezono zethu, ngezono zethu, usihlangule kwiinkathazo ezininzi neemeko, sithandaze kwiNkosi yethu UYesu Kristu usithethelele zonke izono zethu, ubugwenxa kunye nezono, ukususela ebusheni bethu, kude kube nanamhla kunye neyure ngesono, kwaye ngemithandazo yakho ufumana inceba nenceba enkulu, sizukisa kuBathathu Emnye nguThixo, uYise, noNyana, noMoya oyiNgcwele, ngoku kwaye ngonaphakade naphakade naphakade. Amen. "
Umthandazo wothando lomntu
Unokuzibandakanya kwiingceba zothando, unokwakhela amadoda akhethiweyo ngoncedo lomlingo omnyama, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba oku kuya kubangela uvuyo. Kuphela izibophelelo ezidibanisa abantu ababini ngokuvuma kunye kunye nomnqweno, okunokuthiwa kuthiwa uthando. Zive ukhululekile ukuthetha imithandazo eNkosini malunga nothando, kodwa ungalokothi wenze oko kubangelwa abanye abantu:
"Ngaphambi kwakho, Nkosi, ndimi, kwaye phambi kwakho kuphela ndinokuvula intliziyo yam, kwaye uyazi konke endiya kucela, ngokuba intliziyo yam ayinalutho ngaphandle kwothando lomhlaba, kwaye ndiya kuthandaza ndicele ukuba undinike indlela yokukhawuleza yedwa onokukwazi ukukhanyisa ukukhanya okutsha kunye nobomi bam kwaye ndivule intliziyo yam ukuba ndidibane kunye nokudibanisa ngokumangalisayo kwezinto zethu kunye nokufumana umphefumlo oqhelekileyo. "Amen."
Xa iimvakalelo ziphela ...
Nangona iimvakalelo zendoda nomfazi zithandana, nangona kunjalo, zihlonishwa kwaye zithandwa ngubudlelwane babo, emva kwexesha iimvakalelo ziqala ukuphela, iimvakalelo zilahlekelwa ubukhali babo, yonke into iba yinto eqhelekileyo, eyaziwayo, efanayo. Okokuqala, ezi ngcamango zihanjelwa ngabasetyhini. Kwiimeko ezinjalo kubalulekile ukufunda imithandazo enamandla yothando kunye neemvakalelo ezifudumele zomntu wakho. Umthandazo ufundwa phambi komfanekiso woMpostile oyiNgcwele uJohn uMfundisi wezeNkolo:
"Oo, Lowo Ophelayo, uMvangeli Omkhulu noMpostile uJohane uMvangeli wevangeli, uYesu, umfihli, umlamli wethu kunye nomncedisi osheshayo. Cela kuThixo uMninimandla onke ukuba andinike, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), kunye nomyeni wam, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), ukulahlelwa kwezono zethu, ngokuba sonile kwasebuncinaneni nakubomi bonke ngezwi lethu, izenzo, iingcamango zethu neemvakalelo zethu. UMody uThixo uSomandla uyasindisa umtshato wethu kwaye
Umthandazo wokunyuka kothando
Ukuseka ubudlelwane phakathi kwamaqabane, ukuvuselela iimvakalelo , ukuncedisa ukuxolelana nokuxolelana inzondo kuya kunceda umthandazo onamandla kunabo bonke uthando. Lo ngumthandazo wamandulo kunye osebenzayo, osetyenziselwa kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, xa kungekho siphi na ithemba kumntu:
"Ngothando lwakho ngabazalwana bakho abapostile bakaKristu, kunye nathi, amakhoboka akho athembekileyo kuye, ngokumanyanisa, yenza imiyalelo yakho, nithandane ngokunyanisekileyo, kunye nemithandazo yeTheotokos, Lowo u-Humane."