Ngonyaka kwii-shelves zeencwadi zokuthengisa unokufumana iincwadi ezininzi kunye nenkcazo eyahlukileyo yoqhagamshelwano. Injongo ephambili yobuninzi bobuchule kukufundisa umfundi ukuba abe neentlanzi emanzini, axoxe nabantu abahlukeneyo, zombini kwisimo sengqondo kunye nomntu, kunye neemeko zentlalo.
Siya kuzama ukufumana inkcazo ekusebenzeni kakuhle kwabantu - baxakeke, ngaba kulula kangakanani ukugcina ingxoxo kunye nomntu ngamnye omtsha.
Ndingayigcina njani incoko?
Ukuba incoko ezayo isicwangciso kwaye uhlushwa yiengcamango ezingacacanga ukuba unokwenza ingcamango engcono okanye ubalekele into oceba ukuyichazela, kufuneka wenze imifanekiso emfutshane malunga nento ofuna ukuyithetha ngayo. Musa ukulibala ukuba akukho mfuneko yokugxekisa nabani na okanye nantoni na. Ixesha elihle. Kungcono ukuthetha malunga nento oyithandayo. Kodwa musa ukukhutshwa ibali le-ego yakho. Kubumnandi kumntu ngamnye ukuba akhulume ngaye, ngoko ungakhohlwa ukubuza imibuzo evulekile kumnxibelelwano wakho. Oko kukuthi, buza oku, ukuba ngubani othetha naye akakwazi ukuphendula ngokufutshane "yee" okanye "cha." Qulunqa umbuzo wakho, ukuze umnxibelelwano afune ukuxelela ibali elifutshane ebomini bakhe okanye ukuphendula ngamagama angaphezu kweyodwa, ngenxa yokuba unokuqokelela ulwazi oluya kuququzelela imibuzo yakho elandelayo. Ukongeza kuzo zonke ezi ngasentla, unomdla kwizinto zokuzilibazisa, ubomi bomnxibelelwano, ubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba unomdla kakhulu kuwe njengomntu, kwaye awuyikunyamekela konke akuthethayo.
Musa ukulibala ngokuchukumisa ikhanda lakho ngelixa uphulaphule. Emva kwakho konke, ukugqithisa akukho nto ngaphandle kokungazi kakuhle kwemvume malunga nolwaphulo oluvakalayo, lucacisa ukuba iingcamango zomnxibelelwano zibalulekile kuwe.
Umnxibelelwano uya kuba nomdla kwiinkcukacha zakho ukuba akathethiwe ngokukodwa, ngokwemiqathango eqinileyo, amanani, njengokungathi ubika kubaphathi ngabafundi ababenzileyo ngemali yomsebenzi owenziweyo. Beka iimvakalelo ngamazwi akho.
Indlela yokuthetha nendoda?
Makhe sihlale ziziphi izihloko zokuthetha nomntu omele ukhethe. Abameli beesondo eziqinileyo banqwenela iifom ezenza i-adrenaline. Bakhetha ingxoxo ebonakalayo, ebonakalayo kunye neyokukhuthaza. Ingaba yipolitiki, ibhola, umculo, iifilimu, iimoto.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, akusiyo yonke intokazi ekwazi ukuxhasa incoko malunga "nabahambisa ngokuzenzekelayo nge-twin screw screw feeder", ngoko ke owona uphezulu kwaye onomdla kumacala omabini uya kuba yingxoxo yempumelelo yendoda kwiindawo ezahlukahlukeneyo zobomi bakhe. Ukuba usandul 'udibana kunye kwaye ungayazi ukuba sele ifikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, ungazama ukufumana ulwazi oluyiluncedo ngoncedo lwendlela ekhankanywe ngaphambili ebuza imibuzo evulekile nevuliwe.
Ukuba ibhinqa ayithatha nantoni na kulo, ke masiqhubekele kwizinto zokuthetha nabantu.
Ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela ekunxibelelaneni nesini esahlukileyo, ubukhulu bentsebenziswano yothandana luya kwanda, ukuba ngaphezu kwimixholo yabasetyhini, uya kuqhubeka ukhokelwa kwezi zihloko apho amadoda angaxoxa ngeeyure. Ubuncinane amaxesha amaninzi ngeveki, unomdla kwiindaba zezopolitiko zamazwe ngamazwe, jonga kwiwebhusayithi yeefowuni ze-movie. Kodwa, xa ukhetha izihloko ezifanelekileyo kwintetho, ungakulibala ukuba usebenzisana namadoda, kwaye abayi kuqonda kuwe kwi-half-word.
Makhe sicinge ngeendlela zokunceda ukuphendula umbuzo wendlela yokunxibelelana namadoda, ukuze emva kokuphela kwengxoxo, bobabini kunye nomnxibelelwano wakho unelisekile.
- Ngoko, ngelixa uxoxisana namadoda, kufuneka ugweme isingeniso esidelele, kwaye ungafune ukufaka umcimbi ochaziweyo ngezinye izibhengezo okanye iiflethi.
- Ingxoxo kunye nendoda kufuneka ibe yicacile kwaye ihambelana. Akukho mzekelo ungaphazamisi ingxoxo yakho kwelinye ibali kwithemba lokuba iqabane lakho liyakwazi ngokukhawuleza ukubamba ingqalelo into eyathethwayo. Kule nkalo, ingqondo yomntu iqala ukuzama ukufumana ubudlelwane obunengqiqo phakathi kwamabali amabini. Zama ukubambelela ngokulandelelana kwisitatimenti sakho.
- Zama ukuphepha izicatshulwa. Ungasebenzisi amabinzana afana "Awunakukwazi ...". Ukuphendula kumntu wokugqibela unokuvuma ukuba uyakwazi ukuzalisa isicelo sakho. Yena, kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, uya kuqonda ukuba esi sicelo. Le ibinzana lakho, uya kuthatha inzala ngokwakho malunga nokukwazi kwakhe ukwenza
oko u khankanywe - Ukuba ngethuba le ngxoxo nomntu, uphazamisa ngokukhawuleza, ebonisa ingcamango esanda kubonakala, akayi kukhubekisa nantoni na ukuba usebenzisa iicawa ezifanayo.
Ukuba ngethuba le ngxoxo awukwazi ukuthetha namadoda, ukulahleka, ukulahlekelwa ubomi bakho, ungabelani ngeemfihlelo malunga nobunzima bakho. Akudingeki ukuba bazi malunga nento ongayithandi ngokubonakala kwakho, malunga neepounds zakho ezongezelelweyo kunye neengubo zomama wakho kuwe. Yakha kwingcamango yabantu bakho umfanekiso ophumeleleyo.