Umnqweno wabazali ukufumana umsebenzi onomdla kumntwana ulungeleleneyo, kodwa akusoloko eyaziwa ukuba ngaba yinto yokuzivocavoca yentombi yabo.
Imiqathango yokungeniswa kwecandelo
Amacandelo e-Gymnastics asebenza phantse yonke indawo, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ubhale umntwana kwiiklasi, abazali kufuneka bazi ukuba yiyiphi imithetho nemimiselo yokuba bangeniswe kubo:
- Okokuqala, ukuqinisekisa ukuba unikezela intombi yakho ezandleni zabaqeqeshi, akusikho into engafanelekanga ukubuza ukuba ngaba isikhungo sinemvume (lo mvume) kulolu hlobo lomsebenzi, kwaye yintoni uqeqesho loqeqesho lwabaqeqeshi;
- kumaqela amantombazana e- gymnastics avunywe xa eneminyaka eyi-3-4, (iminyaka emi-5-6), kungekho mithintelo, ngaphandle kwezizathu zempilo, akufanele ibe;
- ukulungiselela i-gymnastics oyifunayo isitifiketi esivela kwikliniki yabantwana malunga nesimo sempilo yengane, kwaye abazali kufuneka bahlale bexela apho bathabatha isatifikethi sokukhuphela ngaphandle iingxaki zezempilo emva kokuqala koqeqesho;
- udinga ifomu lezemidlalo elifanelekileyo. Kwinqanaba lokuqala, oku kudla ngokubhukuda okulula kunye neenkomo okanye iisokisi;
- Abazali kufuneka bazimisele ukunikela ixesha lokukhulula ngenxa yeeklasi;
- Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali batyikitya isivumelwano, ikopi enye ekhutshwa kubo ngezandla zabo. Ichaza zonke iimeko zokusebenzisana phakathi kweziko kunye nabazali, kunye neemeko zokuqhuba iiklasi, amalungelo kunye nemisebenzi yamabini omabini.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bacela ukuba babe yintombazana yokuzivocavoca, ngubani ogqithiseleyo. Ewe, akukho mntu unokunqaba ukubhala umntwana kwicandelo, ingakumbi ukuba ngumntwana omncinci, ngubani kwisigaba sokuqala oza kuba nethuba lokuqinisa impilo yakhe kunye nokulinganisela ubunzima bakhe phantsi kolawulo lomqeqeshi oqeqeshiweyo.
Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ukhumbule, ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nendlela yokuba yintombi yokuzivocavoca, ukuba unyuke ngokunyanisekileyo, kuyafaneleka ukuthetha nomqeqeshi, ngoko ke wathabatha ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekileyo okuya kukunceda ukuxazulula le ngxaki. Kodwa kufuneka ulungele ukuba umntwana akayi kukwazi ukuthwala imithwalo efanayo kunye nenani lokuzilolonga njengabantwana abanesisindo esifanelekileyo. Ukuba ungayithobeli le ncebiso, umntwana unokufumana ukulimala kakhulu: izibhamu , iziqhekeza, ukuthuthumela. Ukongezelela, kwimeko enjalo, intombazana inokufumana ukukhathazeka kwengqondo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo isigqibo sokwenza i-gymnastics sifikile kakhulu, uthi, xa uneminyaka engama-9 ukuya ku-12, ngoko abazali bacinga ngendlela iintombi zabo zibe yi-gymnast ekhaya. Njengomthetho, amantombazana awasamkelekanga kumacandelo ezemidlalo kule minyaka, kwaye iinjongo zabazali azikwaneliseki. Yingakho unina nootata abaninzi bacinga ngendlela yokuba babe yi-gymnast ekhaya kwintombazana yabo, bebamba iiparitha kunye nezinga leempumelelo zalabo abaqala ukubandakanya abaneminyaka engama-3 ukuya kwe-5. Nangona kunjalo, kulo mzekelo, abazali bafanele bazibuze oko bafuna ukwenza oku.