Ubuchule bokufunda ezinye iingcamango zabantu, ukuba zixhaphake kuluntu lwethu, lunokulimaza kakhulu unxibelelwano lwabantu. Akusiyo imfihlo ukuba ezinye iingcinga ezivela entloko zikhokelela ekudidekeni, kubangele ukudideka kunye neentloni. Ngoku khawucinge ukuba ezi ngcamango ziye zaziwa ngokuthintana kwakho. Le meko ayiyinto enhle kakhulu.
Indlela yokufunda ukufunda iingcamango zabantu?
Ngona ngqiqo, ukukwazi ukufunda iinjongo kwendalo akukho. Ukucinga kuyimvakalelo, ivela ngokukhawuleza kwaye iphantse ngokukhawuleza, ngoko ke thina kunzima ukulandela inkambo yeengcamango zethu. Nangona kunjalo, ungafunda iingcinga zabanye kunye nabanye bafunda ulwazi ngobuso bomzimba kunye nempawu .
Ukuze ufunde ukufunda iingcamango zabanye abantu, kufuneka uqonde indlela kwaye phantsi kweemeko zeziphi na ezinye iingcinga. Ukwenza oku, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele, okokuqala, uqaphele iimeko ezinokuchaphazela umzila weengcamango, isimo sengqondo, kwaye, nokuba kunjalo, nokuba nokuqonda okuncinane kwindlela ebusweni kunye nesenzo. Akukho nto ingayinakukujongelwa, kuba kwanamabhanki angamaqhinga kakhulu, ukunyameka kwe-interlocutor, isikhokelo sombono, ngokwayo kunokunika ulwazi oluninzi. Le yecala lobuchwepheshe lombuzo, kodwa kukho enye.
Ukuze uqonde indlela yokufunda iingcinga zabantu, kubalulekile ukufunda indlela yokulawula nokulawula iingcamango zakho. Oku kuya kunceda iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokucamngca, izenzo zo-yoga zokuphumula. Funda ukulahla iingcamango ezingekho phantsi kunye nokugxila kwinto enye. Okulandelayo, enye ingxinano yengqondo kwinto ephumayo.
Indlela yokufunda ukufunda ezinye iingcamango zabantu?
Funda iingcamango zabanye abantu, ubuncinci inxalenye, unokukwazi ukuzivocavoca rhoqo. Imisebenzi enjalo inokuqhutywa kunye nomntu osuka kwizihlobo okanye ngabahlobo. Kwinqanaba lokuqala kubalulekile ukuba umntu ojongene naye uyazi kakuhle. Ngokufanelekileyo, lo uyathandwa, ekubeni uxhulumano lwamavakalelo phakathi kwakho luqine kakhulu kwaye lubonakala ngokucacileyo.
Mcele ukuba acinge ngento ethile, ekhangele kuwe. Ngokwemvelo, iingcamango akufanele zenzeke ngokungenangqiqo, ezingenangqiqo kwaye ezingavamile. Kufuneka ube yinto oyazi ngayo kunye nomntu ocinga ngako. Zama ukubamba ingcamango, ngokuchanekileyo, ukubamba. Ungazami ukuqikelela, ungafaki ukucinga okucingileyo , ekubeni ingcamango yomnye kufuneka ifike kuwe kwinqanaba elincinane.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokufunda ukufunda ezinye iingcamango zabantu. Funda ukuqonda abantu. Oku kuya kufumaneka ngokulahla ubandlululo oluchasene ngokupheleleyo nomdlali. Mkhangele ngaphandle komthunzi wokugxeka kunye nokucwasa, nangona xa efanelwe. Emva koko, zama emfanekisweni wakhe, uzibeke endaweni yakhe kule meko, kwaye ucinge ukuba uza kuba
Mhlawumbi uvile malunga nokuba kukho uhlobo oluthile lwenkcazelo yolwazi jikelele, apho iingcamango zezigidi zabantu abahlala emhlabeni. Le ngcamango ayibonakaliswa, kodwa ukuba nathi sinokuqwalasela ukuba iingcinga ziyakwazi ukwenza izinto ezibonakalayo, ke le ngcamango iyasebenza. Emva koko, becinga ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo akukho nto kodwa injongo, oko kukubonakala kwento abantu abayicinga ngayo.