Umsebenzi wobugcisa kubantu abaninzi banomthombo wokufumana imali, kunye nexesha lokuzonwabisa, kunye nendlela yokuzibonakalisa. Yaye le ndlela ayisoloko ilula, inika abantu izizathu ezininzi zokuxhalabisa nokuxinezeleka . Enye yeengxaki ezixinzelelekileyo kule ngqungquthela zihlala zibudlelwane obungalingani kunye noogxa. Emva koko, kuyo nayiphi na imisebenzi ehlangeneyo kukho abantu abangacingi ubomi babo ngaphandle kwemibango. Kwaye kungekhona ukutshisa emsebenzini ngaphambi kwexesha, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukubeka umntu osebenza naye endaweni. Kwaye oku akukho imfuneko ukuba usebenze ngokukhawuleza kubaphathi abanekhalazo. Unokufaka isicelo esineyona ndlela eyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa esebenzayo.
Indlela yokubeka umntu kwindawo emsebenzini?
Iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokubeka umntu osebenza naye emsebenzini, uninzi lunokubaluleka kubantu abangakulungele ukuya kwintsebenzo ende kunye "negazi". Ulawulo lokuqala kunye oluphambili: ungaze uhambe nxamnye ne-aggressor. Emva kwakho konke, ukuphendula kwakho ukuxhaphaza ngokuqhelekileyo ukufezekisa ngezenzo zakhe.
Kodwa ukuba oko kungasebenzi, ungasebenzisa enye indlela yokusombulula ingxaki, indlela yokubeka umntu osebenza naye emsebenzini: xoxa nentliziyo yakho. Mhlawumbi uya kukwazi ukufumana isizathu sokuba angakuthandi wena kwaye uyisuse. Ukuba umthombo weengxabano eziqhubekayo yintlungu engumntakwenu kunye nezinye iimpawu ezingathandekiyo zobuntu, kufuneka ukwazi indlela yokubeka umlingani ozikhukhulayo endaweni ngaphandle kokuguquka kunye nokuhlambalaza. Vula ukunyaniseka akufanelekanga. Gcina ibhola, kodwa ngaphandle kokunyaniseka. Ngokuqhubekayo, ngokuzithoba nangokumthobela umchazela ukuba awufuni ukuphulaphula amagama anonkcenkcesha kunoma ubani kwidilesi yakho. Mkhumbule umlingane ukuba yena ngokwakhe akade engenasono, ngoko, akukho mzekelo unelungelo lokuzibeka ngaphezu kwamanye abantu.