Umsebenzi oyintloko womzali ngamnye ukuphakamisa umntwana wakhe njengomhlali omele uluntu. Kulo lonke uluntu kukho imigangatho yokuziphatha, eqinisweni, iimfuno ezisisiseko ziyafana ngokufanayo kuzo zonke izizwana, kodwa kunokubakho izinto ezikhethekileyo. Akukho mntu ufuna ukuphazamisa umntwana wakho, ngoko siya kuzama ukuqwalasela imigaqo yokuziphatha yabantwana abafundiswe kwiSlavic.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukufundiswa?
Ukuze uhlolisise imigaqo yokuziphatha, kubalulekile ukuba uqhelane nomxholo wokukhuliswa, kwaye kuthini igama elithi "umntwana ofundisweyo". Imfundo - yinto yokugxilisa umntwana wakho kwiipatheni ezithile zokuziphatha kuluntu kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Ngako oko, umntwana ofundelekileyo uthathwa njengomntu obambelele kule miqathango.
Imithetho yokukhulisa abantwana
Imithetho yokuqala yokuziphatha iquka oku kulandelayo:
- xa udibana nomntu owaziwayo, kufuneka uxelele;
- ukuba unikwe into ethile okanye unikezele, kufuneka uthi "siyabonga";
- jongeka kakuhle, ugqoke kwiingubo ezicocekileyo;
- ukuba uqaphele into enesidima kunye nesisa;
- ngendlela kunye neetoni zokunxibelelana nabantu abahlukeneyo.
Kwimeko nganye, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha.
- Ngoko, umzekelo, kwisitrato umntwana kufuneka asondele kum, ngokukhawuleza ukuba angakhulumi, ungagxothi umnwe kwabadluli-ngabantu kwaye ugcine i- SDA - imithetho yeendlela .
- Kwizothutho, akudingeki ukuba usebenze, kufuneka ubeke abantu abadala kunye nabafazi abakhulelweyo.
- Kwivenkile, kufuneka uhlalise kwaye ngaphandle kwemvume kamama wakho awukwazi ukuthatha nantoni kwiifestile, kuba ngaphambi kokuba uthathe impahla, kufuneka uyihlawule.
- Umntwana kufuneka achazwe ukuba abantu abadala bafanele bahlonishwe kwaye bawabize ngokuthi "Wena."
Ngaloo ndlela, siye saqwalasela iingongoma eziphambili, kodwa kungekhona uluhlu lwemiqathango yokuziphatha kubantwana abakhuliswe. Into eyona nto kukufundisa kangcono umntwana wakho, kufuneka ufundise umzekelo wakho kwimimiselo yokuziphatha.