Kwenzeka ukuba umntwana ubonisa umsebenzi owandisiweyo emini kwaye akanako ukuzola ngokuhlwa. Abazali banzima ukubeka umntwana olele ekulala. Ukulala okungapheliyo kwaye ubunzima bokulala buthatha amandla amaninzi kungekhona kuphela kumntwana, kodwa nakwabazali. Kwaye maxa wambi bayagxuma kwingcamango yokunika umntwana olele iipilisi ukuze umntwana alele ngokulala. Nangona kunjalo, kukufanelekile ukukhumbula iziphumo ezinokwenzeka emva kokusebenzisa amanyathelo amaninzi.
Ngaba abantwana banokunika iipilisi zokulala?
Njengento yokudambisa, iipilisi zokulala ezincinci zintsana kunye nabantwana abangaphantsi konyaka azinconywa ukusetyenziswa ngenxa yemiphumo eyahlukileyo:
- kunokwenzeka ukuphazamisa izigaba zokulala, ukutshintshwa kwazo;
- Ngomso umntwana unokufumana ubuchule, ukunganakwa, ukungafuni ukudlala;
- izidakamizwa ezingabonakaliyo kubantwana ziyakwazi ukuxhomekeka kwezilwanyana, kuxhomekeke kunzima ukulwa nazo kunokubeka umntwana ukuba alele.
Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba, okokuqala, kubalulekile ukubheka ingcinezelo yokuphazamiseka kokulala, kutheni umntwana engalali. Kwaye izizathu zingafani:
- umntwana akazange akwazi ukuphosa amandla aqokelelelwe usuku kwaye uzama ukukwenza kusihlwa ngaphambi kokulala;
- Amava omntwana ahlaziyekile ngexesha lokulala (umzekelo, igumbi lithe gqwa);
- umntwana unxinzelelo kwaye unengxaki yokukhathazeka ngokomzwelo;
- utshintsho lweendawo zokuhlala, indawo;
- izifo ezidluliselweyo, ngokuqhelekileyo-esesibhedlele unyango kubangela ukuphazamiseka kokulala ekhaya;
- Iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo (umzekelo, ukulungelelanisa nesibini, uhambo lokuqala ukuya esikolweni);
- iingxabano phakathi kwabazali.
Kodwa isizathu esona siqhelo sobunzima bokuthatha umhlala ebhedeni ngumzamo womntwana wokutsala ingqalelo kumntu wakhe. Emva kwayo yonke into, xa ethatha ixesha elide lokulala, ke yonke ingqalelo ihlawulwa kubazali bakhe kuphela, okwakungenakho umntwana kumhla. Ngaloo ndlela, uzama ukuhlawula ukungabikho kwengqalelo yabazali.
Ziziphi iziyobisi endingazisebenzisa ukubeka umntwana ukuba alele?
Njenge-hypnotic, abantwana banganikwa i-tincture ye-motherwort okanye i-hawthorn, i-valerian (kuphela kwiipilisi, ukususela kwifom ye-liquid, i-valerian yotywala), i-dramina, i-valium, i-relanium. Kukho nemveliso ekhethekileyo yabantwana: Bayu-Bai, iZaychonok. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ayikho iipilisi zokulala zabantwana, unokusebenzisa ukuthulisa kuphela. Kucacile ukuba ngamanye amaxesha abazali bangathanda ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa ngokukhawuleza ukuzola umntwana aze amlale. Nangona kunjalo, ungakulibali loo nto
- ukulala emacaleni, xa kuziwa kwintsana;
- xelela iindaba zobusuku;
- ncokola ebumnyameni.
Ingqalelo kuphela kubazali, inkxaso kunye nothando kunokunceda umntwana alele ebomini.