Ukuba i-carapace ibonakala kumtshato, upapa uya kubhalwa ngaphandle kweengxaki kwisatifikethi sokuzalwa. Kodwa! I-Cardinally yonke into ishintsha xa abazali beemvuthu bengaboniswa. Yaye ubaba makabe nalo, akafuni ukuvuma umntwana, akunandaba. Inqubo ingahamba ngaphezu komnqweno. Siza kuxubusha inkqubo ngokwayo, indlela yokufumana isatifiketi sokusekwa kobuni.
Ukunika oko kuphela:
- utata ongatshatanga kumama womntwana;
- utata, ukuba unina womntwana ufile, ushiye umntwana okanye amalungelo omama asusiwe;
- umgcini, umntu oxhomekeke kumntwana ohlala kuyo;
- umntwana ngokwakhe kwiminyaka eyi-18 emva kokuba inkundla ivume ukuba inzala.
Ndingafumana phi isitifiketi sobuni? Utata nonina baya kwi-ofisi ye-registry okanye kwindawo ababehlala kuyo okanye apho babhalisa khona iimvumba.
Inkqubo yokubhalisa
Abazali bazalise isicelo esisodwa. Ukongeza kuyo:
- iipaspoti;
- isatifiketi sokuzalwa kwesigxina;
- irhafu ehlawulwe i-state duty.
Kodwa ungayifumana njani isitifiketi sobunikazi ukuba unina (umama) ufe? Okanye, mhlawumbi, useyibhedlele yesifo sengqondo kwaye akanakukunceda ukukhulisa umntwana wakhe, kodwa kuvele kufakwe kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa. Kule meko enzima kwaye inzima, kukho indlela yokuphuma. Utata uya kwiofisi yombhalisi yedwa kwaye ubhala isitatimende ngokwakhe. Kuya kuba nzima ukumisela amalungelo kumntwana, kuba ufuna imvume yemagunya okugcinwa kunye nokulungiselela ipakethe yamanye amaxwebhu. Ukongezelela kumaphepha afakwe apha ngasentla, umbhalisi unikwe:
- uxwebhu olufaka ubungqina kubhaliso olungabandakanyeki bobabini (isigwebo senkundla malunga nokunyanzeliswa kwamalungelo kamama, okanye ngokungahambi kakuhle kwakhe, okanye ekhoyo);
- ikopi yesigqibo senkundla malunga nokusekwa kobunikazi;
- imvume yamagunya okugcina.
Yonke into esixoxe ngayo ngasentla, ibhekisela kwiimeko apho umntwana engekho 18. Yaye yintoni na inkqubo, ukuba sele sele eyi-18? Yonke into iyahamba ngokwemigaqo efanayo, kuphela uxwebhu oludlulileyo alufunayo - imvume eyaneleyo yendoda okanye intombazana yokufumana umntwana.
UBawo nonina babhala iingxelo ezihlukeneyo, ukuba abazange bakwazi ukwenza enye.
Uza kusinda nini uvavanyo? Siyaphendula: ukuba akukho mgaqo-jikelele okanye isitatimende esivela kwipapa, kwaye kwaye imvume yesigunya sokugcina inganikwa.
Isatifikethi sokusungulwa kobuni (isampula sibona ngezantsi) sikhutshwe ngosuku olufanayo.
Oomama abaninzi bakhulisa umntwana wabo nonina ongowona ozalelwa ekhaya, emva koko baqhawule umtshato baze bafune ukufumana iimeko zobuntu. Ngaba ndinokuyicima isatifiketi sam? Hayi, hayi. Le nselele enkundleni, kwaye le nkqubo inzima kakhulu.