Wonke umntu owazi ubuncinane ngeengqondo, uyazi ukuba imigaqo yokucinga kwamadoda nabasetyhini ihluke kakhulu. Ukuze sakhe ubuhlobo obuqhelekileyo, ibhinqa kufuneka iqonde indlela ingqondo yomlingani wayo ihlelwe ngayo. Unokukufunda oku ngeyilingo elide nelibuhlungu, okanye ngokufunda nje iincwadi ezifanelekileyo malunga neengqondo zesintu.
Iincwadi ezintle malunga neengqondo zesintu
Sifaka kwiincwadi zakho ngqalelo kwiingqondo zengqondo yabasetyhini abaza kukunceda ukuqonda kangcono abameleli besondo esomeleleyo kunye nokwakha ngakumbi ubudlelwane nabo:
- "Abafazi abathanda kakhulu" uNorwood Robin . Le ncwadi ithetha ngenye yeengxaki eziqhelekileyo kunye neengxaki zabasetyhini ngokumalunga namadoda. Ukuba ukuthanda kwakho rhoqo kuthetha ukuhlupheka, le ncwadi iyakufanelekile ukukufunda. Kubhalelwe wonke umntu owela othandweni "kungekho kulabo" - kumadoda angakhathalele ngawe, ayenobungozi beziyobisi, izidakwa okanye ama-donzhuans. Emva kokufunda le ncwadi, uya kushiya indlela yothando olonakalisayo.
- "Ulwimi lobuhlobo bendoda-mfazi" uAlan noBarbara Pease . Phakathi kweencwadi zengqondo yesintu, le nto ibonakala ngokucacileyo-ithetha malunga nendlela yokufumana ulwimi olufanayo kunye nesini esahlukileyo, apho kukho ukungqubana komzimba kunye nengqondo. Iseluleko esiluncedo kule ncwadi sinceda kwaye sakha ubudlelwane phakathi kwentsapho, kwaye ukuqonda ubuchule bokunxibelelana kokungabambisani .
- "Amadoda aseMars, abafazi baseVenus" iGrey John . Le yenye yeencwadi ezithandwayo kakhulu malunga neengqondo zesintu kwiintsebenziswano. Uthetha ngokumahluko kwimbono yowesifazane kunye nendoda, kwaye unceda abantu bobabini besini baqonde kangcono. Xa uqonda ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye neqabane lakho, awuyi kuba nezizathu zokuxabana nokungaqondani.
- "Ukuthembisa ukuba awuyi kutshata, okanye ungamthandi" UG.Berendet, uL . Tuchillo . Uluhlu lweencwadi ezilungileyo kwizengqondo
Amadoda akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwesi siqhelo sombhali wabalobi ababini. Le ncwadi inceda umfazi avule amehlo akhe aze angakheli ngcamango ngomntu. Ukuba ukwesaba ukuzivuma into ethile ngaphambili, ngoku le ngxaki ayiyi kubakho ebomini bakho. - "Yenza njengowesifazane, cinga njengomntu" uSteve Harvey . Le ncwadi yathandwa ngokubonga kumbhali wayo, umculi onomdla kunye nombonisi weTV, kunye nempumelelo eyongezelelweyo yaxhaswa ngoncedo lwefilimu ephambukayo. Incwadi ichaza indlela yokufumana nokugcina iqabane elifanelekileyo.
Ukufumana isiqingatha seyure ngosuku ukufunda ezi ncwadi ezintlanu, uya kusindisa ixesha elide kakhulu, ulahle ulwalamano olungathembayo, ukuxabana kunye neentlekele.