Kulo lonke ubomi, abantu baqhutyelwa ziimpawu zeempawu kunye neemeko zexesha elizayo , kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu okwazi ukuwabona, kuncinci ngokucacileyo.
Ukwazi njani iimpawu zexesha elizayo?
Le miqondiso, ethunyelwe kuthi evela phezulu, ingabonisa izifo, isilumkise nakweyiphi na imicimbi, njl. Imiyalezo yesiphelo ingafumaneka ngeendlela zamaphupha, iziganeko ezingachazwanga, iziganeko ezihlukeneyo, kunye neemeko ezifihlakeleyo.
Ngoko, ufunda njani ukuqonda iimpawu zexesha elizayo:
- Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba uvuyo kunye nolonwabo olungenakuqondakala kwinto oyenzayo, ngoko wenza into efanelekileyo, kwaye uhambe ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, uziva ukwesaba, ukuphazamiseka, ukungakhathazeki, uhlobo oluthile lokwesaba, kungcono ukuba ungavavanyi isifo, lo mqondiso uthi kufuneka ulahle izicwangciso zakho uze ungabandakanyeki kwizinto ezibangelwa yimvakalelo enjalo.
- Abantu abadibanayo ngendlela yethu nabo bayimilayezo yesiphelo. Mamela amagama omntu ongaziwayo, zama ukuhlalutya oko kuthethwe ngako, kuba kula magama kunokufihla intsimi eyimfihlelo.
- Ukuba udla ukucinga ngomntu, ngoko kufuneka udibane okanye ufonele umnxeba kuye, uya kuvela kuye uya kufunda ulwazi olubalulekileyo kuwe, oluya kufikelela ngokukhawuleza kwixesha elizayo.
- Izifo nazo zinokuba ziimpawu ezilumkisa ukuba ixesha lokuphumla kwaye ungagqibi kwiinjongo zakho.
- Iingcamango zihlala zithatha uhlobo oluthile lwazi, into eyona nto kukukuchaza ngokucacileyo isigidimi. Namhlanje, kukho iincwadi ezahlukeneyo zokuphupha ezinokukunceda kule nto.
Ungayiqonda njani indoda yakho ngemiqondiso yexesha elizayo?
Ngamnye wethu unesiqingatha sesibini esilungiselelwe sona ngokusisithuba, umntu udibana naye ngokukhawuleza, kwaye umntu unokukwazi ukukhangela ubomi bakhe bonke.
Ngoko uyayibona njani isigqibo sakho:
- Xa udibana nendoda, uya kuphazamiseka kukuba uyazi omnye umntu.
Uyazi oko uza kuthetha okanye akwenze. - Emva kwesondlo sakho uziva ukhululekile kwaye ukhuselekile.
- Ukuba umntu ulungiselelwe kuwe, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba neenjongo ezifanayo, iinjongo , amaphupha. Kuye uya kuhlala ehlala, yintoni ekuthetha ngayo kwaye ebaluleke kakhulu kunye naye unako ukuthula.
- Xa umntu wakho engazange azungeze awufumani indawo, zonke izinto ziwela ezandleni zakho, ukuze ungaqali ukwenza yonke into echithekayo, isimo sengqondo sitshintsha, uthanda umoya awukho ubukho bomntu othandekayo.