Ngaphambi kokuba unike inkcazo yesinikiloji yesini, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ubulili-zesini ngokwesini aluhlali luhambelanise neengqondo zendalo, kwaye kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kukho ubuncinane ubuncinane beentlobo ezi-8.
Ndingubani na?
Into yokuba akusiwo wonke umntu olungele ukwamkela ukutyunjwa kwendalo "I", eyanikezelwa yona ekuzalweni, kwaye ukuzisiza kwabo ukuhlukileyo kuyahluke kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo. Kodwa, enye indlela okanye enye, umntu oziva ngayo, unelungu loluntu apho kufuneka asebenze khona. Kwaye olu lulwalamano lwakhe noluntu, indima kunye nemisebenzi ayenzayo kuye ngokuhambelana nokuzikhethela kwengqondo ngesini kunye nokusebenza kwengqondo yezobulili.
Ngaphantsi kobudlelwane besini, amaninzi athetha ulwalamano oluhlukeneyo kwimiba eyahlukeneyo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Enyanisweni, ulwalamano lolwalamano olunjalo lubanzi kwaye alubandakanyi nje kuphela umsebenziswano wabantu kunye nabameli bezocwangciso zesini kunye neentlobo zesini, kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokusebenzisana phakathi kwabo ngokwesini, kunye nentsebenziswano yentlalontle namalungu amanye amaqela ezesini.
Patriarchate okanye ...?
Ngamnye wethu unendima yokudlala kwindlela yentlalo yobomi kwaye ayimfuneko nje kuphela nge-biological yeli okanye isondo, kodwa kunye nezithethe zenkcubeko kunye neenkcubeko zentlalo yoluntu esiphila kuyo.
Kuze kube kutshanje, uluntu lwaba-patriarchal 80%, oko kukuthi, imisebenzi yamadoda nabasetyhini yacaciswa ngokucacileyo kuyo. Namhlanje umfanekiso utshintsha kwaye ngokukodwa kumazwe aseNtshona, imida yezobugcisa bezesini zobunkokheli ayibonakali. Umntu ukhululekile ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni esivela ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yesini sakhe sobomi ozithathela yona, kwaye akuthini. Oku kusebenza kuzo zonke iinkalo zemisebenzi yakhe, ukusuka kwiingcali ukuya kwiinkonzo zentsapho. Kukho imizekelo emininzi apho umfazi ethatha inxaxheba "yokutya" kwintsapho, kwaye wonke umntu uyazinikela ekukhuliseni abantwana nokugcina indlu.
Kuzo zonke iintlobo ezibonakalayo zobulili bezenhlalo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ingqondo yeengxaki zesini ayithethi. Nangona kunjalo, ilawulwa ngabadlali ababini bendabuko: abesilisa nabasetyhini, badibanisa omnye nomnye kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo. Iqondo lokuba ngokwesini esithile sezesini ngokwasemzimbeni senziwa ngumntu wonke, kwaye olu khetho ludlulisela nakwizinto ezinjengezinto ezibonakalayo kunye nendlela yokuziphatha.
Uninzi lwabantu abasemhlabeni luzibandakanya ngokuzeleyo ngesini abalufumanayo ekuzalweni nasekuziphatheni ngokwemidima ebelwe ebantwini. Abo baziva bevalelwe "emzimbeni wesinye isizwe" bakhululekile ukuguqula, kwaye iqondo lokutshatyalaliswa kweenguqu ezinjalo lingafani: umntu ulinganiselwe kwizinto zokuboya iinwele kunye nezambatho, kwaye umntu ulungele ukulala phantsi komkhwa ogqirha. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, umntu uya kuqhuba kuphela imiqondiso yesinye sesini. Emva koko, indalo ayilanga isithathu. Kwanama-hermaphrodites, kuphela imanyano yalezi zimbini ziyabonwa. Ngoko, ukungafani ngesini, eqinisweni, akuninzi kwaye iingcali zibandakanyeke ekufundeni iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zabameli bamaqela ahlukeneyo ngokwesini.
Vula, mfazi!
Nangona ulawulo lwentando yesininzi yehlabathi lanamhlanje, elikhuthaza amalungelo oluntu, i-facto, nangona kunjalo, iziganeko zobandlululo bezesini aziqabile, kwaye oku kuthethwa ngokukodwa kwi-career. Isini sengqondo sengqondo sabesilisa kunzima ukuba baqwalasele umfazi olingana naye ngenxa yokungafani kobuqu kunye nomphumo wendalo wokuzala kunye nokubeletha abantwana, okuvela kwindoda yombono kubangela ezininzi izinto eziphazamisayo, ngendlela yekhefu lokubeleka okanye impilo yokugula ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kwaye ke, ukuhamba komsebenzi kufuneka kwenziwe utshintsho ngokufanelekileyo, okungekho mkeleke kakhulu ngabaqeshi. Ukongeza, kaninzi
Izithethe kunye nendlela yokuphila eyenziwa ngamakhulu eminyaka ayinakuguqulwa ngobusuku obubodwa, kuba akunakwenzeka ukunyanzelisa bonke abantu ukuba bathandane nabamelwane babo kungakhathaliseki ukuba bazibandakanye ngokwesini, kodwa ukuba bazame ukufumana ukungqinelani kwezobudlelwane, ngokuqinisekileyo kuyimfuneko nokuba ingafunyanwa, kwiintlobo ezininzi kuxhomekeke ekuphuhliseni phambili koluntu lonke.