Unxibelelwano, naphezu kokulula kwangaphandle, luyinkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi kunye neenkcukacha ezininzi, ngexesha apho oonxibelelwano abaxhamlileyo basungulwa kwaye baphuhliswa. Uqhagamshelwano lubonakaliso lomzimba lwemfuno yomntu womsebenzi odibeneyo, kwaye ngexesha lokutshintshiselwa kolwazi, ukuqonda kunye nokuqonda kweqabane. Into ebalulekileyo ekunxibelelaneni yinkalo yemvakalelo, ukuqonda kwabantu. Siza kujonga iintlobo nemisebenzi yolwazi.
Iintlobo zonxibelelwano
Ukuthetha ngokuthetha, ukwabelana ngeenjongo, iintlobo, isakhiwo, imisebenzi. Iintlobo ziyimpawu eziphambili ezikuvumela ukuba ukhankanye ngokubaluleka kokuthintana nomnye umntu okanye abantu. Phakathi kwabo ungabhala uluhlu olulandelayo:
- Unxibelelwano oluqhelekileyo - unxibelelwano, olusebenzisa iimaski eziqhelekileyo (ububele, ubunzima, njl) ukwenzela ukufihla iimvakalelo zangempela. Ngelo xesha, akukho mnqweno wokuqonda umdibaniselwano.
- Uqhagamshelwano oluphambili lubonxibelelwano , apho abantu bavavanya njengophazamisayo okanye abanako ukunceda into. Emva kokufumana okufunwayo, umntu uyayeka ukuthetha.
- Inxibelelwano-nxaxheba-ngokweenxibelelwano , ezakhiweyo malunga nolwalamano lwentlalo.
- Uqhagamshelwano loshishino - unxibelelwano, iindidi kunye nemisebenzi enokuqwalasela iimpawu zobuntu, isimo sengqondo somntu odibanisa naye, kodwa iinjongo zeso sihlandlo zihlala phantsi.
- Ukuqhagamshelana ngokomoya, ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kwabahlobo- unxibelelwano, imisebenzi yawo kunye neentlobo zengqondo ejulile, inkxaso.
- Unxibelelwano oluxilisayo lunxibelelwano , injongo yalo kukufumana inzuzo.
- Ukunxibelelana koluntu - ukunxibelelana akukho nto, apho bathetha oko kwamkelekileyo, kungekhona oko bacinga.
Imisebenzi, iintlobo, amanqanaba kunye neendlela zonxibelelwano zibonisa ulunxibelelwano oluvela kumacala ahlukeneyo kwaye luvumele ukuqonda okungcono indlela kunye nemigaqo yokusetyenziswa kwayo, ngaphandle kokubangela ukuba kunzima ukuthintana njani nabanye abantu.
Imisebenzi yoNxibelelwano
Imisebenzi ibalulekileyo iipropati ezabelana ngemibonakalo yoqhagamshelwano. Kukho imisebenzi emithandathu:
- Umsebenzi wokubambisana (uxhulumaniso lomntu kunye naye).
- Umsebenzi wePragmatic (izizathu zokukhuthaza izizathu).
- Umsebenzi woqulunqo nophuhliso (amandla okuchaphazela amaqabane).
- Umsebenzi wokuqinisekisa (ukwazi ukwazi nokuziqinisekisa).
- Umsebenzi weentlangano kunye nokugcinwa kobudlelwane babantu (ukusekwa kunye nokulondolozwa kwezibophelelo ezivelisayo).
- Umsebenzi wokuqhawula umbutho (uququzelela ukudluliselwa kolwazi oluyimfuneko okanye ukwahlula).
Ukuqonda iindlela zokunxibelelana, umntu uqala ukubheka kule thuluzi lezentlalo ebalulekileyo, okumvumela ukuba aphucule kwaye afinyelele iinjongo zakhe.