Ukuba ngumama unomsebenzi ohloniphekileyo, kodwa unengxaki. Yaye yonke into iqala ukususela kumzuzu wokulungiselela isigramente, oko kukuthi, ukusuka ekukhethweni kwesipho kumntwana. Yintoni enokunikela ngayo i-godson ye- christenings ? Esi siganeko akungathandabuzeki ukuba sithokozele, kodwa izikhumbuzo eziqhelekileyo azikwazi ukuhanjiswa apha, isiganeko sizodwa, kwaye izipho zifunwa ngokufanayo.
Yintoni ongayinika i-godson yokukhanda?
Ndiye ndibhaptiza iintsana ngeenkulungwane ezininzi, ke kutheni izipho zalo mcimbi zide ziba yindabuko. Kwaye inkululeko encinci yokuzikhethela ngabazali bakaThixo, kuba ngoku nabo banembopheleleko yokukhulisa umntwana, ngoko ke banqatshelwe ukunikela izinto ezikhunjini ezingenasiphelo. Ngoko ke unkulunkulu unika ntoni kwi-christening?
Isipho sokuqala nesona sibaluleke kakhulu umnqamlezo, ngubani na obazali abavela kulowo wesibini, ongayidlala indima, ngokuqhelekileyo kwenziwa ngokuvumelana. Ukwazi ukubaluleka kwesi sipho kwi-godson yokukhanda, abantu abaninzi bazama ukukhetha umthwalo obizayo. Enyanisweni, akukho ntlukwano kwizinto ezinjani zesilivere, igolide, i-aluminium elula okanye inkuni. Ixabiso le sipho kubonakaliso balo, kwaye izinto eziphathekayo zikhethwa ngezizathu zobugcisa kunye nobukhulu besikhwama.
Esinye isipho esisinyanzelo kwi-godson ye-christening yisethi seengubo ezintsha apho umntwana egqoke emva komkhosi. Isethi imele iquke ukusikwa kweetinen okanye ityhubhu kunye nekhati. Ngaphambili, zonke ezi zinto zenziwe ngokuzimela, iifiligi kunye nekhati zifakwe ngesandla, ngoku ungathenga iisethi ezilungiselelwe. Kodwa ukuba kukho umnqweno kunye nekhono, akuvumelekanga ukuba ufake iingubo kwi-godson ngokwayo. Into ephambili kukuba yonke into ifanele ibe yenziwe ngamathambo athambileyo akonakalisi ulusu lolutsha. Ewe, akufanele uyilibale ngokubonakala kwintle, kuba ishati yokubhaptizwa iya kugcinwa iminyaka emininzi. Kukholelwa ukuba unako ukukunceda umntwana ukuba uya kugula ngokukhawuleza.
Ukongeza kwizinto ezigunyazisiweyo ezinikezelwa kwi-christenings, i-godson inokubonisa uphawu kunye nobuso besawosa, ogama lakhe libizwa ngokuba ngumntwana. Kwakhona kufanelekile iBhayibhile yezingane nezinye izinto ezingcwele. Kukho isiko lokubonisa i-spoon yesilivere, eya kuba ngowokuqala yokutya okungeyomfuneko. Ngamanye amaxesha banikezwa izibane zobusuku kunye namakhaya amnandi, bedlala ibhaptizo, njengokunqoba kokukhanya phezu kobumnyama.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unkulunkulu akaphoqelekanga ukubonisa zonke izipho ku-godson, ngoko umbuzo wokunikela ubhaptizo uxoxwa kunye nabazali bomntwana kunye no-godfather ukusabalalisa imisebenzi yomnikelo. Imithetho eqinile ayikho apha, nangona kaninzi ikwacetyiswa ukuba ngu-godfather owanikela umnqamlezo kumfana.