Yintoni ebangela ukuba abafana bathande kunye kunye neendlela ezifanayo zokukhetha amantombazana? Imibuzo enjalo ayinomdla "kuphela ngabantu", kodwa kwenzululwazi engaphelelanga ukucinga ngolu hlobo, kodwa yenza uphando olunzulu. Iziphumo zophando lwezenhlalakahle zithandeka kakhulu, kubonakala ukuba izikhundla ezizithandayo zabafana ngesondo zivame ukuhambelana nezo zinto zibangela ukuba amantombazana athande. Ngoko, zizinto ezintathu ezithandwa kakhulu, ezifanele ukubizwa ngokuba yizinto ezizithandayo kunye namantombazana kunye namantombazana: "umfana osuka ngasemva", "umfana ovela phezulu", "intombazana evela phezulu". Ziziphi ezinye izinto abafana abazenzayo? Kwiindawo ze-4 kunye ne-5 ziyi-positi "elele emva" kunye "nokuhlala". Kuyathakazelisa ukuba abafazi bayavumelana neendawo zokuqala ezintathu zezinto ezizithandayo zabafana, kodwa kwiindawo ze-4 kunye ne-5 zibeka "69" kwaye "uhleli, kunye nomlingani omileyo" kufakwa. Kutheni iimpendulo ezibekwe kwiindawo ze-4 neye-5 zihlukileyo kumadoda nakwabasetyhini, izazinzulu azizange zifumene, kodwa zichaza ngokuzithandela ukuthandwa kweendawo ezikhoyo kwiindawo eziphezulu eziluhlu lwoluhlu.
Izinto ezizithandayo zabafana
- Hlala "umfana ongasemva", naye uyindlela yokufundisa. Enyanisweni, oku akuyiyo enye indawo, kodwa iqela elipheleleyo lemibuzo, ethandwa kakhulu kubafana. Isikhundla seengalo kunye nemilenze yabalingani iyahlukahluka ngokubhekiselele kokulula kokubili. Musa ukukholelwa ukuba kuloo ndawo, ungakwazi ukuza neendlela ezininzi? Xhuma inkumbulo okanye uthathe kamasutra, kwaye qinisekisa ukuba eli ngxelo lichanekile. Kutheni abantu abafana nale bebuza? I-Sexologists, ewe, iya kuthi le ndawo ifanelekile kumaqabane, kwaye ngoko unabalandeli abaninzi. Iingcali zengqondo zithi le ndawo imnandi kubafana kuqala okokuba bayayilawula ngokupheleleyo loo mfazi, oku kuthetha ukuba iqondo eliphezulu liyithemba leqabane. Kodwa kukho enye ikampu, abaxhasayo babo bathetha ukuba, xa umntu osuka emva exhaswa ngabantu abanobuchule bokuqala, kwaye ubiza ezo zesini "ngesondo ngaphandle kwemizwa."
- Hlala "umfana ovela phezulu," ungumvangeli wevangeli. Nangona iimeko ezahlukeneyo zesini, isithunywa sevangeli sisasaziwa kwaye sithandwa ngabantu abaninzi. Kutheni amadoda afana naye? Igama kwizengqondo zengqondo. Aba baqhelisi beemfihlelo zengqondo yabantu bakholelwa ukuba amadoda, ukhetha le nto, ufuna ukugxininisa imvakalelo yabo kumlingane. Emva koko, xa ulala ngesimo, unokubanga. Sekunjalo, ngokweengcali zengqondo, amadoda anjalo awafuni ukulala ngesondo ngenxa yaloo nto, kodwa ngokwemvelo banobubele kwaye banamandla. Eyona ndlela ingakumbi iingcali zikholelwa ukuba isinamathiselo kule ndawo ngenxa yesimo esiphezulu sendoda. Kodwa ungacingi ukuba isithunywa sevangeli, kuphela kwezo zibini ezinengxaki neengcamango okanye izibini "zomsindo." Ukwahlula oku kutyhafisa ngokunyusa iipiliti ezimbalwa phantsi kwethanga lomlingane. Ngokweengcali, utshintsho oluncinci luya kukwandisa ubunzulu bokungena, kwaye luya kuvumela i-orgasm ukuba ifikelele kuzo zombini amaqabane kunyekanye.
- Hlala "intombazana phezulu" okanye umgibeli. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba esi sikhundla sikhethwe ngabantu abacebileyo. Kwaye, ngokwenene, ndikhululekile-kwaye ndonwabile, iqabane liza kwenza konke. Enyanisweni, uluvo olunjalo luchanekile, amadoda amaninzi achaza oku ngohlobo lwabo ngothando. Kodwa akusoloko ikhethwa kwinto enjalo, enye ingenxa yobuvila. Amadoda athetha le nto, aesthetes, aphuthelwa ithuba lokumthanda ubuhle bendimazana yabesifazane. Ubume balaba baqulunqa ubuhle bubonakala ngokuzithemba, kodwa ukukwazi ukuphazamisa kukhona. Kanti ke iingcali zeengqondo zikholelwa ukuba abantu abakuthandayo le nto baxhatshazwa, kwaye kunye nabo kunye nemizwa.