Kuyaziwa ukuba amadoda namabhinqa awanalo kuphela i-physiology ehlukeneyo, kodwa i-psychology. Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba abafazi abathandayo abayithandeki abantu. Masizame ukufumanisa oko kubangelwa ngabantu, ukuba imimandla engummiselo kufuneka igxininise ingqalelo yabo ukwenzela ukuba idibanise intando yabo.
Indlela yokunyamezela indoda?
Unako ukuvuyisa kungekhona kuphela emlonyeni wakho, kodwa nangokuhlekanyiswa, kwiinwebe. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukhetho lweendawo ezibucayi, akunakulungele ukukhumbula ukuba amadoda anesiqingatha esiphantsi kweentlungu xa kuthelekiswa nabasetyhini.
Ngoko, qwalasela ngokubanzi iinkcazo ezikunceda ukuqonda apho unokunyamezela khona indoda yakho ethandekayo.
- Ubuso. Amadoda amaninzi afana nawo xa intombi ethandekayo ithinta ubuso babo. Nika into ethile endlebeni yakhe, uze udime. Ummandla onobuhlungu kunabo bonke umlomo. Okumangalisa kukuba, elowo uthanda ukumanga emlonyeni. Chukumisa imilomo yomlingane wakho ngolwimi lwakho kunye nezandla zakho.
- Izandla. Inani elikhulu lokuphela kwezibilini lisezandleni. Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba kufuneka uqhathele intanda yakho, ubambe izandla. Shaza isandla sakho kumgca wecala. Akuyi kuba yinto engathandekiyo yokuhlambulula umthandayo.
- Amabele. Ngaluphi uhlobo lothando olunjengeendoda, lubhaliwe ezininzi zeencwadi kunye namanqaku. Kwabaninzi kubo kuphawulwe ukuba i-physiology yamadoda yesifuba ifana nomfazi. Isondo esomeleleyo asixhomekekanga, kodwa sinokufudumala, ngenzondelelo
ku khuthaza. Sincoma, ukwenza ukusilalisa okulula, kwaye uhamba ngokuchukumisa iingono, njl. Ukuziva ukuba baye bahamba phambili, tshintshela kumahlombe, ngaphantsi, emacaleni. Emva koko, buyela esifuba kwakhona. - Ukukhangela kunye nomva. Ngeempembelelo ezinomdla, qhafaza umfana, ukhawuleze. Ngale nyathelo uvumela iqabane ukuba liyazi ukuba wenza konke ngokuchanekileyo.
- Efunekayo kwimenyu yesondo yomlomo wesondo. Kubantu, ukuzonwabisa kukuzisa ukuhamba, kodwa kungekhona ukuhluka kwazo. Ifuna ukuqiniswa ngokuthe ngcembe. Ungayiqondi ngokupheleleyo iqumrhu lakho iqabane. Kodwa ungakulibali ukuba ukucoca inxalenye engezantsi yelilungu, uyalibazisa ukuphuhliswa kwesidoda, oko kuthetha ukuba unokulondoloza ixesha lokugqibela.
Amadoda, njengabasetyhini, adinga ukuqala. Akufanelekanga xa ukhawuleza, khawuleza ulale ngesondo. Yiphulaphula into oyithandayo nento engekho, indoda yakho.