Njengomthetho, abantwana babhaptizwa beselula, kwaye abazali bahlala becwangcisa ukugubha ikhaya ngeli xesha. Ukuba uyamenywa kwisiganeko esinjalo, kuyafaneleka ukuba wazi kusengaphambili oko kunikwe inkwenkwe okanye intombazana engumKristu. Kwaye ukuba ukhethwe ukuba ube yinxalenye ka-godfather, kuya kufuneka unikezele ngezipho eziphambili kubantwana abaya kudlula naye ubomi bakhe bonke.
Ziziphi izipho abazinikela kubantwana bakaThixo?
Ukuba kukho isivakashi esiqhelekileyo kukho ukukhethwa ngokwaneleyo kwezo zinto kunye nezinto onokukunika zona, ngokokuba ummkeli okanye umamkeli uluhlu lulawulwa yinto yesonto kwaye lunentsingiselo enkulu.
Ngokwesiko kwakukho oothixo abaye banquma ukuba umnqamlezo uzonikelwa kwi- christening , kwaye wanikela. Oku kufanekisela ubuhlobo obunzulu bokomoya phakathi kosana kunye noyise. Nangona kunjalo, kunikezelwa ukuba lo mnqamlezo kufuneka ukuba ugqitywe ixesha elide kunokwenzeka, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kubomi bakho bonke, iimfuno zabazali zibalulekile. Njengomthetho, ukuba bafuna umntwana ukuba agqoke isiphambano esivela kwigolide, azithenge ngokwabo, ukuze angabi nyanzela abafumanayo ukuba bachithe kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba wanquma ukuthatha umnqamlezo kwisilivere, ke makunikwe ngumntu onguThixo.
Esinye isipho esibalulekileyo esivela kubantwana boothixo ngu-kryzhma, into ekhethekileyo, apho umntwana ehlanganiswe khona emva kokungcoliswa ngumfundisi kwifayili. Ifuzisela ukucoceka komKristu, kwaye kufuneka agcine ubomi bakhe bonke ngokukhumbula le mzuzu. Kukholelwa ukuba ngenxa yamaconsi amanzi angcwele awile kuwo, ezi zicubu zifumana imilingo, ukuphilisa.
Kwakhona, oothixo bafanele banike umntwana ishati (ihempe). Kuye, umntwana uya kwambatha ngokukhawuleza emva kokugqitywa kwemicimbi. Ngokuba amantombazana, ngendlela, kufuneka ukuba anike ingubo. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, le nkcubeko ibonise ukuba ukususela ngexesha lokubhaptizwa, umntwana akanalo kuphela kubazali bezinto eziphilayo kodwa nabazali bokomoya abanokuzinakekela nokubanceda, bancedise kwiimfuno kunye nobunzima bokuphila. Le shati nayo kufuneka igcinwe bonke ubomi.
Kwizithethe zaseYurophu kukho ibinzana elithi "wazaliswa ngesipuni sesiliva emlonyeni wakhe" (lo ngumfanekiso wesibonakaliso sethu esithi "ishati izalwe") - ngenxa yoko, wazalwa evuya. Eyokuqala eYurophu, kwaye ngoku ngoku siqhubeka sinika i-christenings isiliva yesilivere ukutsala impumelelo ebomini bomntu.
Olu luhlu olugqithiseleyo lwento oothixo abahlala besinika ngayo i-christenings. Oku kukwaneleyo - unokubamba ngaphezu kweentyantyambo zeentyatyambo kunye ne-candy kubazali.
Yintoni abanikezelayo kwi-christening yomntwana?
Ukuba awuyena u-godfather, unokugqiba umbuzo wento ekufuneka uzinike ngayo kwi-christenings ngokwakho. Kuzo zonke iindwendwe akukho mida eqinile kunye nemiqathango. Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba umxholo womntwana kule mihla yinto enqabileyo yindleko, kwaye esikhundleni sokutsala ibhere elingenanto elingamamitha amabini endlwini yodadekazi, kungcono ukufumana kubazali bakho izinto eziyidingayo okwangoku.
Ukwenza kube lula ngabo ukuba bathathe isigqibo, banikezele ngokukhetha kwabo, oku:
- abahambahambayo;
- iingubo zebusika zabantwana, izihlangu;
- imidlalo efanelekileyo yeminyaka;
- itafile eguqukayo;
- ilinen yelinen yabantwana;
- iBhayibhile ibantwana;
- isethi yeenkundla zokuhlamba umntwana;
- zonke iintlobo zokubonelela (i-diapers, njl. - ngokubonisana nabazali);
- iifayili ezifanelekileyo kule minyaka;
- Ukutya kwasebantwaneni (okufunekayo ngesivumelwano nabazali benkwenkwe).
Ukuba uyazi ukuba abazali bomntwana banesidingo esikhulu sonyango lwemali yokulungiswa, unokuhlala unika imali kwimvulophu. Esi sipho, nangona singenakulibaleka, kodwa sinobuchule kakhulu, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo asiyi kuba yinto engabonakaliyo.