I-idyll yentsapho enoxolo, indoda enothando, abantwana abakhutheleyo - wonke umntu unomona, kwaye uthi: "Makube njalo! Ndifanelwe ulonwabo! ". Awu, umona asibikho ayisekho, athe wabonakala ngokohlobo iminqweno "konke okusemandleni" kubo unomona. Kwaye kwisigama sesiqhelo sesigama, umona ngesifiso kuthiwa yi-spoilage.
Kwaye ngoko ngezinye iinkalo, yonke into, ekungabikho, nakweli, iqala ukunyuka. Umyeni uba nomsindo kunye nawe kunye nabantwana, ungakhankanyi ukungafumaneki kwintlalo kwintsapho kunye nawe. Kule mizuzu, ngoko siqala ukucinga (ezo ngcamango zivame ukutyelela iintloko zethu ngokudlulayo), indlela yokususa kumyeni ukutshabalalisa. Kwaye ekubeni ucinga, ke kukho isizathu. Emva koko, i-aura yethu ikhawuleza kunokuba ingqondo ithintela utshintsho.
Ukhohlakala lomtshato
Ukuba umntu wayefuna ukutshabalalisa imodeli yakho yentsapho, wayefuna ukuthatha umyeni wakho okanye akushiye kumyeni wakho, bathunyelwa kuwe ngokuqhawula umtshato. umonakalo onjalo usoloko ingabhekiswa omnye wabalingane, leyo ngenxa yoko baya kuba "ngumtyholwa" ekuweni entsapho. Makhe sibhale iimpawu eziphambili zokuhlaselwa kumyeni:
- indoda ingabi namdla;
- Uhlala eya endlwini kanina, ehlala kunye nabahlobo, emsebenzini;
- Ukuziphatha kwakhe kwitshintsha: uqala ukudlala ngothando nomnye umfazi oqalayo;
- Ucinga ukuba uyintshaba eyonakalisa ubomi bakhe;
- uyakwazi ukusela utywala ngobuninzi.
Ukuthumelela "isipho" ngendlela yokubhubhisa nabani na onako, ukufikelela kubantu bakho abasondeleyo. Oku kuba udade, engatshatanga, iqela, yakho ex-mathe, lowo uye wasebenza indoda yakhe elizayo, abantwana ukusuka umtshato wokuqala, njl Ukuba ngaphantsi ukusingatha ngenene ukujonga indlela umonakalo kwindoda yakhe, ngoko izifumanele umthunywa kunzima kakhulu ngakumbi, yaye akukho ingakumbi kuyimfuneko.
Ngoku kubalulekile ukunyamekela ukususwa kwe-spoilage kumyeni wakhe.
Kuthunyelwe ekudleni
Indlela elula yokususa i-spoilage kwindoda engaziwa, ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe - kukuthetha ngokutya. Amadoda adla abafane ukukholelwa umonakalo imilingo kunye ezahlukeneyo, ngoko xa ulwalamano yakho liyaphela ngomlingo , kuyimfuneko ukwenza cwaka, siqinisekile amakhono abo.
Ngeveki, funda oku ukunyundela ngokutya komyeni wakhe:
"Kubhaliwe kwizibhalo malunga noAdam:
UAdam wanika u-Eva intambo, kwaye babenothando,
Kwaye oonyana bazalwa kubo, nathi thina kubantwana babo.
Ndibeka uthando luka-Evin
entliziyweni yomkhonzi kaThixo (igama).
Ndiyathandaza, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), uKumkani waseZulwini,
Theotokos, uMama wakhe:
Isiqwenga, sisiphofu, abakhonzi bakaThixo (amagama).
Indlela iigodo ezijikeleza ngayo izibonda,
Masibe sesidla.
Yaye ngubani osilimazayo, osikhusela ekuphileni,
Togo, iNkosi mayiyithathe.
Susa, Nkosi, yonke into embi, yonke into
Nentsapho yam, kunye nomyeni wam.
Sithumele iminyaka yobudala,
Ukuthanda kwaye ungalibali indlela uEva ayemthanda ngayo uAdam,
U-Adam wamlandela njani ukusuka kwiparadesi ukuya emhlabeni.
E gameni likaBawo noNyana kunye noMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen. "
Ukuba ulwalamano aluphuculanga, kuya kufuneka uphendule kwiingcali - uloyi okanye uloyi.