Ngamanye amaxesha uvakalelwa kukuba into ephosakeleyo yinyuka. Uqala ukuziphatha ngokungafaniyo, ukukhetha kwakho kutshintsha kwaye unqotshwa ngumnqweno ongaqhelekanga womntu. Kule meko, kuyafaneleka ukufundisisa iimpawu zokuqonda ukuba uthwayelwe. I-Privorot - nguyena wezona zinto ziwonakalisa kakhulu kwindoda eyenziwa ngumlingo omnyama, kwaye uyisuse ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu.
Ngoko, njani ukuqonda ukuba indoda okanye intombazana yayitshitshisiwe?
- Ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntu omnye waba liziko lehlabathi, eli liphawu eliyingozi kakhulu.
- Indoda ekhethiweyo ayiboni mntu.
- Indoda ethandwa ngumntu oqinisekileyo: ngaphandle kokuthanda kwakhe uya kufa. Nangona kunjalo, ukuxhomekeka kuyo akukukholisa, ngokuchaseneyo, kubangela ukuba unetyala.
- Kukho umnqweno wokulondeka, kodwa ngokumelene nentando yomntu, ukhankanywa kumthengi, ozisa iintlungu.
- Le ndoda ihlala ihlanjululwa ngumkhathala kwaye ibukeka ngokukodwa: mhlawumbi ibalekile okanye ilukhuni.
- Indoda ethe yachithwa ingabi namandla okwaneleyo ukuvuma ukuziphatha kwayo.
- Umntu ulahlekelwa ngumdla kuyo yonke into eyamtsala ngaphambili waza wamenza wavuya.
- Ngaphandle kokungabikho komntu onqabileyo, ukungathembeki kunye nokudandatheka kuye kuvezwa, kodwa ebusweni bakhe akuphuculanga.
- Ukuphelisa ukuzithemba, ukwesaba ukwahlukana kunamandla kunalo.
- Umntu uba ngumntu ongenakunqwenelekayo, ukholelwa onke amagama aloo owunqambileyo.
- Indoda ihlushwa ngenxa yokulala okanye ukulala . Ngamaphupha amaxesha amaninzi anesisusa.
- Xa umntu ezama ukuxhathisa oku, uyaba nomdla kwaye ufuna ukuzibulala.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukubethelwa (umthengi) kukho ubugwenxa, ndifuna ukumbulala lo mntu kwaye ndikhulule.
Emva kokufunda le miqondiso yendlela yokuqonda ukuba umntu unqatshelwe, unokufumana izigqibo ezichanileyo. Kodwa ukukrazula eli rhulumente, kuya kufuneka ujikelele kulabo abanomlingo omnyama.