Ukubalekela into okanye umntu uthetha ukwesaba nokungafuni ukujongana nengxaki. Ukuba ukhumbule kakuhle iphupha lakho kwaye unokulivelisa ngokucacileyo, ngoko uncedo lweenguqulelo ezicetywayo uya kukwazi ukufunda ulwazi oluninzi olulonkcenkcesha malunga nekamva kunye nelikhoyo.
Kutheni ufuna ukuphupha?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaphupha anjalo afanekisela ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi, mhlawumbi awukwazi ukufumana indlela efanelekileyo yokuphuma kwimeko enzima ixesha elide. Ngamaphupha anjalo anokutolika njengomnqweno wokufihla abantu abajikelezile. Ukuba ubalekela ngempumelelo ukuxoshwa - kukubakho okulungileyo, ukuba uya kuhlangabezana nayo nayiphi na ingxaki, kwaye zonke iimeko ziya kugqitywa ngempumelelo. Ukubalekela ibhere ephupheni kuthetha ukuba ngokwenene kuya kufuneka usebenzisane nomntu oye wakhathaza. Kuba umfazi, iphupha apho ebalekela khona kumntu unokutolika njengento edangeleyo ngothando okanye ukungcatsha. Ukuba le ndoda yayingumthandi, iphupha lifanekisela ukungaqiniseki kuyo. Ukubaleka ephupheni inja, ngoko kufuneka ukhangele ngakumbi abantu abakujikelezile, kuba umntu ujikeleza intliziyo kwaye ufuna ukukumisa. Enye iphupha njengale nto ibonisa ukutshatyalaliswa komhlobo osondeleyo.
Ukuba uzama ukufihla kumapolisa, ngoko, mhlawumbi, uhlushwa yimvakalelo yecala ngenxa yesenzo esandula kutsho. Ukugijima kunye nokufihla ephupheni kwindlela ye-maniac ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kufuneka uqokelele yonke imikhosi ukuba ibambe ubunzima bokuphila. Iphupha apho ubalekela khona kwihashe uthembisa umhla wokuthandana. Ukubaleka ephupheni inyoka, kuthetha, ngaphambi kwakho ulindele ukuba iingxaki zempilo, ezinokuthi, ziza kuba zixhalabisa inkqubo ye-urrogenital. Iingcaciso zephupha zincoma ukuba u tyelele ugqirha ngelo xesha. Ukubalekela kwinkomo kwiphupha, kuthetha ukuba empeleni waqala ukudlala, kunye nomntu ophantsi.