Uyakuqonda njani ukuba umntwana wayenobunzima?

Iso elibi, urhwaphilizo kunye nezinye iinkolelo zidla ngokubhekiselele kwimibango eyahlukeneyo. Abantu abaninzi abaqinisekanga ukuba elinye ilizwi elibi okanye libukeka lingabangela ubungozi obungenakulinganiswa kumntu, ngoxa abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, bayakukhanyela.

Okwangoku, kwezinye iimeko, abazali abayazi nje indlela yokuchaza isizathu sokuba umntwana wabo ngokukhawuleza aqale ukuziphatha ngendlela engaqhelekanga kwaye engafanelekanga. Ngamanye amaxesha bafanele bajike kwiindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo zokususa iliso elibi, amaqhinga, kwaye rhoqo loo ndlela iyakunceda umntwana. Kule nqaku, siza kukuxelela indlela onokuyiqonda ngayo ukuba umntwana udibene, kwaye kufuneka wenze ntoni kule meko.

Unokumisela njani ukuba umntwana udibene?

Kukho imiqondiso emininzi onokuyifumana ukuba umntwana udibene, kwaye, njengento encinci, nangaphezulu. Umzekelo:

1. Ingane ayifuni ukunxibelelana nabani na, uhlala yedwa ixesha elide. Mhlawumbi ungabi nabala kwaye ungakhathaleli okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, unomsindo omkhulu, unomdla kwaye unomsindo.
2. Ingane ingaba nobushushu obuphakanyisiweyo, obonakalayo emva kweentsuku ezingama-2-3. Kule meko, umntwana ngokuqhelekileyo ufumana ubuthathaka obuninzi kunye ne-malaise, nangona kunjalo, akukho zibonakaliso zesibanda okanye esinye isifo.
3. Inkwenkwe iqala ngokukhawuleza yinoyiko lomnyama ize ifune ukulala.
4. Ekugqibeleni, umntwana uyayeka ukunandipha imidlalo eqhelekileyo kwaye akafuni ukuya kwindawo awayeyithanda ngayo.

Yintoni enokuyenza ukukhusela umntwana kwi-jinxing?

Ewe, akunakwenzeka ukukhusela ngokupheleleyo umntwana wakho kwimibono engaphandle. Okwangoku, usenokwenza okuthile ukuzama ukuphepha isohlo elibi:

1. Zama ukubhaptiza unyana wakho okanye intombi ngokukhawuleza. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenziwa emva kokuguquka kweentsuku ezingama-40 ubudala.
2. Musa ukuvumela umntu ukuba adumise umntwana wakho, ngokukhawuleza uguqule ingxoxo kwenye yesihloko.
3. Faka kwi-stroller kwicala lasekhohlo, njengento ecaleni kwintlanzi, isibuko esincinane. Kanye ngeveki, kufuneka ihlanjwe ngamanzi abandayo.
4. Ekufuphi kwesikhalazo, kumgama owaneleyo ukusuka kwintsana, faka ipinki yesiNgesi, qinisekisa ukuba umntwana akayi kufinyelela kuyo kwaye akayithathi emlonyeni wakhe.
5. Ukuba i-stumb in walk is sleeping in a stroller, jongela isiqwenga se-tulle kuso. Ukuba umntu ukhangele umntwana olele, qi