Xa usana olusandul 'uzalwa luvela endlwini, nokuba lukholelwa kakhulu kwiinkolelo-ze, uMama uzama ukwenza konke ukukhusela umntwana "kwiso elibi". Kwaye ukuba ungenakuhlala ekhaya emva kweentsuku ezingamashumi amane zokuqala emva kokuzalwa, i-pin evela kwiso elibi, isalathisi okanye uphawu oluthile lunokufumaneka kwi-stroller nganye. Ewe, ukufumana umkhwekazi okanye umama-mkhwenkwe, ongeke anikezele abantwana abaneendawo zokugcina amanzi angcwele, akunakwenzeka ukuba asebenze. Yingakho umama kufuneka azi indlela yokususa iliso elibi kumntwana ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amaninzi ahlukeneyo, abaphili, abantu abaxhamlileyo.
Amandla angalunganga
Imikhosi yokukhusela yintsana ayinakuliswa ngokwaneleyo, ngoko impawu zempembelelo yamandla embi zibonakala ngokukhawuleza. Akumangalisi ukuba ukuhamba okuqhelekileyo kuphelela nge-whims, ukushiya amabele, ukuphazamiseka kokulala. Kwaye konke ngenxa yokuba ummelwane othile ebhontshini wayekhangela kwisithuthi kwaye wathi into echaphazela kwikheli lomntwana. Imiqondiso ephambili yeliso lomntwana inokuqalwa ngokulula. Oku kulila, ukukhala kukuhlambalaza, ukukhala ngaphandle kokuyeka, ukukhala ngehora. Abo bangayazi indlela yokujonga iliso elibi lomntwana bacetyiswa ukuba badlulise ulwimi phezu kwempumlo. Ukuba i-taste is salty, "iliso elibi" linendawo yokuhlala.
Izindlela zokukhusela kwiso elibi
Nangona indlela umama aphatha ngayo ubukho besiso elibi lomntwana, kuyafaneleka ukukhusela. Okokuqala, ungabonakali umntwana wakho ngokungenasidingo kuwo wonke umntu ofuna. Ukuba wenqaba ukungayifaki isicelo ngokungahambi kakuhle, zama ukuphepha indawo ezininzi ngokuqala. Kwaye ibinzana elithi "umntwana engabhaptizwa" kufuneka liqondwe ngokuchanekileyo. Okwesibini, zama ukumdumisa umntwana, ungavumeli abanye bakwenze. Akukho imfuneko ukuthi "fu, yintoni ekhohlakeleyo!" Okanye "i-pah kuwe!", Njengabakhulukazi banqwenela ukwenza. Okwesithathu, ungabonakali abantu abangaziwa kwi-baby sleep. Kule ngongoma, amandla akhe asemgangathweni kwaye asemngciphekweni.
Ukuba ufunde izicwangciso zokukhusela umntwana kwiso elibi, kuya kuthatha iindlela ezisebenzayo zokuzikhupha. Eyona nto ifumaneka kakhulu ngamanzi angcwele. Akuyimfuneko ukunyathela ngesinyathelo ukuze wazi indlela yokuhlamba umntwana kweso elibi, ngokuba ngokwawo amanzi amanzi angumthombo omkhulu wamandla. Ukuba iimpawu zeliso lomntwana sele zikhona, zama ukufunda umthandazo.
Umthandazo kwilihlo elibi
"Ngegama likaYise neloNyana noLomoya oyiNgcwele." Ndiyinqanaba eliphezulu malunga nomntwana kaThixo (igama). Ukuze kungabi namnye ongasondelayo: akukho buhlungu, akukho xhaphaza, akukho mmelwane obi, ongenayo isohlwayo, umvakalisi ongavumelwanga, ukulahla, ukugaya, ukugaya, ukugubha, ukugubha, ukugubha, ukukhupha, i-oohs, ukugubha kunye ne-ahi, kunye noyiko olungenanto. Msebenzele yena, i-ax, mphendulele, unqamle, unyikimazele, ihobe. Veretentse, ukuba ahambe, kwaye yena, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), makabe ehlakaniphile, ephilileyo kwaye elungileyo. Uzuko kuYise nakuNyana nakuMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen. "
Lo mthandazo ovela kwiso elibi lomntwana uyanyunjwa ngamanzi. Umele usule umntwana.