Ngokuqinisekileyo uye waba neembali xa ungazange wenze konke okwakucwangciswe ekuqaleni. Ngokomzekelo, bashiya ivenkile ngokuthenga okungadingekile. Ngokuqinisekileyo waqala incoko malunga nokwahlukana kwaye wagqiba ngokubanga kwe-truce. Bafika kwintlanganiso kunye nemibono yabo, kwaye baphuma kunye nomnye umntu. Ukuba kunjalo, ngoko awukho ngengxolo eyaziwayo nengcinezelo yengqondo. Ngaloo nto, ngubani na othe tyekeleka ukuba asebenze, kwaye ziziphi iindlela zengcinezelo yengqondo kumntu, siza kuthetha namhlanje.
Ukubonelelwa kwengcinezelo yengqondo - kuyimpembelelo kumaphuzu athile omntu, ukuphathwa komnye umntu ukuze kulawulwe indlela yokuziphatha komnye umntu. Iinjongo eziphambili kubaphathi bezinto ezinjalo ngabantu abazenzisi, abanamathele kwi-self-flagellation kunye / okanye ukuzincama, abangaqinisekanga ngamakhono abo.
Izindlela kunye nobuchule beengcinezelo zengqondo kumntu
- se tyala. Le yindlela eqhelekileyo yengcinezelo yengqondo kwintsapho: xa umyeni ekuhlambalaza ngokunika ixesha elide kumsebenzi, abazali bafumana oko bafuna ngokubakhumbuza ngempilo yabo ebuthakathaka, abantwana bayakugxeka ngokuqeshwa ngokusisigxina, njl. Kule meko, kufuneka uziqonde ngokwakho, umntu ugxininisa kwinqanaba elibuhlungu kakhulu kuwe;
- isiphakamiso nokuphindaphinda. Umzekelo omhle ukuthengisa. Iingcali zentengiso ziyazi kakuhle indlela yokusebenzisa uxinzelelo lwengqondo kumntu: phinda, phinda, phinda ...
- indlela yokuphendula imibuzo. Le mibuzo ekhohlakeleyo, apho, ngakwesinye icala, kubonakala kungenakuso ukuphendula, kodwa kwelinye ... uxolo luyakwamkelwa ngenxa yemvume. Umzekelo: "unokuthi ungancipha njani," uyazi ukuba usilahle njani ", njl.;
- ezisongelayo. Olu lugxininiso olusisiseko sengqondo olusekelwe kwiisongelo okanye kwi-blackmail;
- ukuhlaselwa kwengqondo. Ngethuba lokucamngca imeko, ukubiza, izikhumbuzo, iingxoxo kunye nesicelo sokuthatha isigqibo esifanelekileyo siwela kuwe;
- ukuphazamiseka kwamanga. Abafazi abazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ukungabi nandaba kwabantu kuthatha amadoda.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ukubonelelwa kwengcinezelo yengqondo akusoloko iphosakele. Abambalwa abacinga ngeendlela zokuziphatha, njengomthetho, ukuphathwa kakubi kwenzeka kwinqanaba le-intuitive.