Mhlawumbi uya kumangaliswa, kodwa, ngokwemilinganiselo yeminyaka yakutshanje, phantse isiqingatha sayo yonke imishado ebhalisiweyo iyahlukana. Mhlawumbi ipesenteji zomtshato kwilizwe lethu likhulu kakhulu ngenxa yobulula bokubhaliswa kwabo, kuba ngaphambili, xa isibini sasiqhawula kuphela imvume yemvume yecawa, izahlulo zingaphantsi. Kodwa, enye indlela okanye enye, intsapho iyayeka ukuba yintsapho emva kwesigqibo sokuqhawula umtshato, kwaye ininzi yazo zonke ichaphazela abantwana. Amalungu amancinane kunawo onke entsapho ahlala enzima ukufumana ukwahlukana kwipapa kunye nonina, ingakumbi ukuba abazali abaxabani ngabantwana ngexesha lomtshato. Ngezantsi ingcaciso emele yaziwe kwalabo abaqhawula umtshato: indlela yokulungisa umtshato phambi kobantwana , yiyiphi na maxwebhu angeniswe, apho emva kokuqhawula umtshato uya kuhlala umntwana, njl.
Inkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato phambi kobantwana
Ukuba intsapho enomntwana oneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-18 iyafaka isicelo sokuqhawula umtshato, yenziwa kuphela kwinkundla. Akukho zikhetho, kuba iseshoni yenkundla ibanjelwe ukukhusela amalungelo omntwana kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba xa ehlukanisile, akaxhatshazwa naluphi na uhlobo (ukuhlala, ipropati, ukunxibelelana nomnye wabazali). Olunye ukhetho - ukuba umntwana engakaphendulanga unyaka, ngoko umtshato usenqabe: ukuqhawula umtshato kunye nabantwana abancinci ngomthetho akuvunyelwe.
Ngoko, xa kuthathwa isigqibo, omnye umzali okanye bobabili abazali kufuneka baqokelele iipokethi ezipheleleyo baze bawadlulisele kwi-ofisi yezobugwebo kwindawo yokuhlala apho ibango liya kubhalwa kwaye iseshoni yokuqala yenkundla iya kuqeshwa. Le phakheji yamaphepha iquka iziqinisekiso ezilandelayo:
- ingxelo yebango ngokwayo;
- iikopi zeepaspoti zokutshata;
- isatifiketi somtshato;
- isatifikethi sokuzalwa somntwana;
- ukuba ngaba abatshatileyo baneengxabano malunga nokuhlulwa kwezindlu zangasese, ngoko ufuna iimpepha zomthetho.
Kwintlanganiso yokuqala, isigqibo, njengomthetho, asithathiwe. Abatshatileyo banikwa enye inyanga ukuba basenokutshintsha ingqondo yabo baze bahoxise ibango. Inyanga kamva, ngexesha elimiselweyo, kufuneka bavele ngeepaspoti zokuqala zeseshoni yesibini. Ijaji ivame ukubuza imibuzo malunga nokuba kutheni indoda nomfazi banqume ukuqhawula umtshato, ngenxa yezizathu zokuba ubomi babo bentsapho babungekho. Kwakhona ulungiselele imibuzo malunga nabantwana: unesivumelwano esivumelwaneni sokuba ngubani oza kuhlala naye emva kokuqhawula umtshato, kaninzi kangakanani na baya kubona umzali wabo wesibini, njl njl. U-alimony uya kugqitywa: ahlala ehlawulwa nguyise womntwana, ukuba uthe wahlala kunye nonina, kodwa kungekudala kwenkqubo yokugweba, kwakukho ngaphambili xa i-alimony inikwe umama.
Ekupheleni kwentlanganiso, inkundla inika isigqibo sokugqibela somtshato. Ukwenza kube ngempumelelo, kufuneka uhambele i-ofisi ye-registry kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezizayo kwindawo ohlala kuyo, apho uya kukhutshwa isatifiketi somtshato.
Yonke inkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato, ukuba abafazi bafumana umntwana, kuthatha malunga neenyanga ezimbini.
Iingxabano malunga nabantwana ngokuqhawula umtshato
Njengoko uqeqesho lubonisa, abantwana abahlukaniswe ngabazali ngokwabo, banquma phakathi kwabo, abo baya kuhlala nabo. Kwinkoliso yamaninzi, abantwana bahlala kunye nonina: indima yakhe yemvelo njengowesifazane kunye nomhlengikazi wakhe ochaphazelekayo, uphelelwe ngaba, nokuba ngaba abantwana sele bekhulile. Umzimba wesisu wokunyamekela inzala yabo ayivumeli umama ukuba ashiye abantwana bakhe kubawo, nokuba ufanelekile. Abantwana bahlala becinezela le meko. Ukuba ngaba abafazi basasaza, abantwana abaza kuhlala nabo kwixesha elizayo,
Ukuba ngaba abazali abakwazi ukuza kwisigqibo esinjalo, inkundla iya kukhangela ngesiseko seenkcukacha malunga nemeko yezemali bobabini bomtshato kwaye ngubani kubo onokukwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuphila komntwana, lowo umntwana uya kuba ngcono ngemfundo, njl. Yamkelwa ingqalelo kunye neembono kwiakhawunti yengane.
Xa behlukanisa inkundla nomntwana, abazali bajongene nomsebenzi obalulekileyo: kunokwenzeka ukucacisa kumntwana ukuba, nangona bengayi kuhlala kunye kunye, banomdla kwaye baya kuhlala bemthanda, kwaye uya kuhlala ekwazi ukuthetha nopapa kunye nonina.