Umhla wokuqala kwi-nursergart kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana kunye nabazali kunye nootitshala, owamthembayo umntwana wakho. Ukuba, ngenkathi unikela umntwana engadini, uzive ungaphephekanga kwaye ujabulise, amava akho ngokuqinisekileyo uya kucinga ngengqondo yomntwana wakho. Ndingayifumana njani indlela yokuzithemba namhlanje? - Lungiselela lo mzuzu kwangaphambili.
Indlela yokulungiselela umntwana kwi-nursergart, siza kuxubusha kweli nqaku. Sebenzisa ezi ngcamango uze wenze usuku lwakho lokuqala enkulisa enolwazi olumnene.
Ixesha lokutshintshela kwi-kindergarten
Ukutshintshwa kweentlobo kwi-kindergarten akuhambeli kakuhle kubo bonke abantwana. Xa umntwana ebuya esivinini enemimoya embi, akafuni ukugqoka ekuhambeni kusasa ukuya kwiiklasi, abazali abaninzi baqala ukungaqiniseki ngemfundo yezikolo zangaphambili esikolweni ootitshala abasebenza kwi-kindergarten. Nangona kunjalo, ngokwenene, isimo sengqondo somntwana sixhomeke ngakumbi kwiimvakalelo abazali abaye bamthabatha kwi-kindergarten, oko akuva ekhaya malunga nexesha lokuhlala kwi-kindergarten. Umntwana uthatha isimo sengqondo kwi-kindergarten ngokuyinhloko kubazali, ngoko-tshintsha isimo sengqondo sakho kwisiko lokufunda, kwaye umntwana uya kulandela umzekelo wakho.
Indlela yokuququzelela umsebenzi?
Ungayilungiselela njani umntwana ekudleni? Ungayilungiselela njani i-kindergarten? - Ukulungelelanisa kwi-kindergarten kwakunzima, landela ezi ngcebiso ngokulandelelana okulandelayo:
- Qinisekisa ukuthatha umntwana esikolweni. Mhlawumbi usenalo ixesha lokuhlala nomntwana ekhaya uze ufundise yena. Andiqinisekanga ngesidingo sokunikezela uxanduva komnye unonophelo, uya kuba neengxaki zecala, kwaye oku akuyi kuyenza ngenjongo yomntwana ngokwakhe.
- Qinisekisa ukuba i-kindergarten enikwe umntwana wakho ibhetele ngokuhambelana neendlela ozimisele ukuzisebenzisa ekukhuliseni nasekuqeqesheni umntwana. Khumbula ukuba iminyaka yokuqala yoqeqesho kunye nophuhliso luhlawula ngokuphindaphindiweyo xa ukhulile, kuba uqeqeshe kakhulu, uyanyamekela kwaye ufumene ootitshala, unokuphucula umntwana wakho.
- Yenza konke okusemandleni ukuseka ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nabasebenzi bezontanga. Izipho ezincinane "ngokuhlonipha ukuthandana", "ngoMatshi 8", njl. Kuya kuba mnandi kunzima kakhulu kwinjongo yengqondo.
- Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana sele esele azi kakuhle izakhono zokuqala zokuzimela: unokucela ibhodwe, ubambe isipuni, agqoke. Nangona kunjalo, lo mgaqo awukho konke ongenanto. Ekubeni kulula kuba bantwana abaninzi ukuba bafunde yonke into ebhalwe kwiqela, kwaye akukho nhlobo inzala enokuthi ingavumi ukuvuma umntwana ongenalo ezo zakhono.
- Ungalokwesabisa umntwana ngoosongelo: "Ukuba uziphatha kakubi, ndiza kunika inkulisa." Kule meko, unobungozi bokuhlakulela isimo sengqondo esichaphazelekayo malunga nesi sikhungo kumntwana. Ngokuchaseneyo, mkhokele apho njengeholide. Kwaye xa umntwana ephanga, ngezikhathi ezithile unako "ukusongela": "Ukuba uziphatha kakubi, andiyi kukuthatha kwi-kindergarten, uya kuhlala ekhaya".
- Yenza njalo ukuba usuku lokuqala kwi-kindergarten lwakhunjulwe kumntwana into into evuyisayo. Mnike nge-toy oyifunayo emva komhla wokuqala echithwe kwi-kindergarten, ulungiselele i-dessert yakhe endiyithandayo (nangona kunjalo, qiniseka ukuba incedo kwakhona, mhlawumbi, ngosuku olulandelayo emva kokutya ikhekhe kunye ne-cream umntwana akakwazi ukuya kumyezo, kodwa izifo ezithathelwanayo esibhedlele).
- Ukuba umntwana uqale ukutyelela engadini ngokuzithelekileyo, kodwa ixesha elithile isimo sakhe sengqondo sitshintshile, ungazivumeli
iimfuno zomntwana zokumshiya ekhaya, ekubeni ngokwenza isabelo sokuqala, uza kubonisa umntwana ukuba imfuneko yokuya kwintsimi ayinyanzelekanga, ngezikhathi ezithile inokuphulwa. Kuya kuba ngcono ukuba, ukuba unqobe ukunyamekela kwimihla yokusa, uya kukhangela umntwana kwiqela, kodwa ngokuhlwa uya kumkholisa umntwana into enomdla kuye kwaye uthembisa ukuba akukho nto ihamba ngayo ngokusa kusasa, uya kuvela into enomdla kuye. - Ungalibali ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi nomntwana kusihlwa. Inkunzi nganye idinga ubuncinane iyure enye ngosuku, umntu omdala ahlawule yena ngokwakhe, kwiminqweno yakhe, iingxaki zakhe, imidlalo yakhe. Hlangana nalo mgaqo kwaye ubomi bakho bentsapho buya kuba yimpikiswano kunye nokuchuma.