Indlela yokuqhawula umtshato xa kukho umntwana?

Ukwahlukana okanye, ngokubhekisele kumthetho osemthethweni, ukuqhawula umtshato kuhlala kuyintlungu kwintsapho. Ukwahlukana phakathi kobantwana, ngokukodwa ngomntwana oya kunyaka, kaninzi kubonakala kungenakwenzeka ukutshata. Okwangoku, zonke izibini ezingenakuhlala kunye, zihlala ziphikisana kwaye zifumene ubudlelwane, kodwa zivumelanisa ukungafuni kwabo ukuhlukanisa ubukho babantwana, kuyafaneleka ukuqikelela: ngaba ngokwenene umntwana uphila kangcono kwintsapho apho abazali behlala bexabana? Ngaba le nto ayiyi kuba yingqondo enkulu

ukuxhwaleka kwintsana?

Kule nqaku, siza kuthetha ngoluhlu lomthetho loqhawulo-mtshato, qwalasela indlela umtshato owenziwa ngayo umtshato, ukuba kukho abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka, ukuba umntwana uhlala phi xa uhlukanisa, njl njl.

Inkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato phambi kobantwana

Iimeko zokuqhawula umtshato phambi kobantwana zihluke kakhulu kwiimeko zokuqhawula umtshato, apho kungekho bantwana. Ewe, oku kubangelwa imfuno yokuqwalasela amalungelo kunye neemfuno zabantwana. Ingxaki ebalulekileyo ekuqhawuleni umtshato womtshato kunye nabantwana abaqhelekileyo ngokuqhelekileyo ukufumana ukuba ngubani umntwana ohlala esahlukanweni. Oku kuthatha ingqalelo imeko yemeko yomlingani ngamnye, ukufumaneka kweendawo ezifanelekileyo zokuhlala kubantwana, ezinye iimeko eziyimfuneko, kunye nemvume yabantwana ekuqhawuleni umtshato (oko kukuthi, ukuba umntwana ubonisa umnqweno wokuhlala nomnye wabazali, inkundla kufuneka ithathe ingqalelo kulo mnqweno).

Ngokungafani nomtshato oqhelekileyo, umtshato ungenziwa kuphela enkundleni, phambi kobantwana, kuba kule mfuneko kubalulekile ukulungisa ngokusemthethweni imiphumo ethile yomtshato: ukwahlukana kwepropati, isabelo se-alimony, inkqubo yokukhulisa abantwana abaqhelekileyo kunye nendawo yokuhlala kuyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho inani lamatyala apho ukutshatyalaliswa kunokwenzeka kwiofisi yeRejista, nokuba ngaba bafazi banabantwana abancinci abancinci ukuba:

1. Iqabane libonwa lingenakufaneleka.
2. Iqabane libonakala lilahlekile.
3. Umlingane uhlawuliswe ngokuphula umthetho kwaye ugwetyelwe entolongweni iminyaka engaphezu kwe-3.

Ngokuqhelekileyo inkqubo yoqhawulo-mtshato ingaqaliswa ngumnye womtshato (nangona ngaphandle kwemvume yomnye), ngaphandle kwexesha lokukhulelwa komfazi kunye nomnyaka wokuqala emva kokuzalwa komntwana (nangona umntwana wazalwa efile okanye engazange aphile unyaka) - kulo mzekelo indoda ayinalo ilungelo lokuqhawula umtshato ngaphandle kwemvume ke abafazi. Kule meko, nokuba ngaba izicelo zombini zomtshato zamukelwa ekuqaleni, kwaye ngexesha lokulingwa umfazi waqala ukuchasana nomtshato, ityala leqhawulo lomtshato liyaxothwa.

Ukuze uqhawule umtshato phambi koonyana abancinci, kufuneka ufake inkundla kunye nenkundla. Ifomu kunye nexabiso lomsebenzi welizwe omele uhlawulelwe ngexesha elifanayo lilawulwa yizinto ezifanelekileyo kunye nemithetho yomthetho. Isigqibo sokuba ngubani kunye naluphi na umvuzo oza kuhlawula umrhumo wombuso wokutshatyalaliswa komtshato, abafazi bodwa baya kuthatha isigqibo. Unokufaka isicelo sobabini kunye noncedo lommeli. Unokufaka isicelo kwinkundla yendawo (kwindawo yokuhlala kuyo omnye wabafazi). Ukuba ngaba bobabini bomtshato bavuma ukuqhawula umtshato kwaye baye baxazulula imibuzo malunga nokukhuliswa nokuhlala kwabantwana, ukhuseleko lwabo lwezezimali, ukwabelana ngepropati, njl., Isivumelwano siqhotyoshelweyo kwisicelo, apho konke oku kuboniswe khona.

Ngokuxhomekeka kwimvume (ukungavumelani) bobabini bomtshato ngokuqhawula umtshato, umthwalo wokusebenza kwezixhobo zokwahlulela ngeli xesha, ukungabikho okanye ukuvela kwexesha lokubambezeleka kwenkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato, njl njl. Ixesha lokuxazulula umba wokuqhawula umtshato ngowama-1.5-3.

Ukuba ngexesha elimiselweyo abafazi abazange bavele enkundleni (ngaphandle kokusebenza ngesizathu esithile), isicelo sabo sokuqhawula umtshato sithathwa njengento engekho nto. Ukuba, emva koko, abafazi bafaka isicelo sokuqhawula umtshato, ixesha elidlulileyo ukususela ekufakeni isicelo sokuqala alithathi ingqalelo kwaye ixesha lokulinda ekuhambiseni isicelo ekuqaleni kwenkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato iqala ngokutsha (oko kukuthi, kufuneka silinde ixesha elipheleleyo elinqunywe ngumthetho).

Kodwa khumbula: ukuba unabantwana abaqhelekileyo ngexesha loqhawulo-mtshato, zama ukwenza inkqubo ingaphantsi kwimeko enokubangela ingxaki - ungathethi kakubi malunga neqabane lakho, ungafungi kubantwana, umntwana makangacingi ukuba ubangele ukuxabana okanye uzive ungathandeki ngenxa ukuba abazali bakhe abahlali ndawonye.