Mhlawumbi, akukho mntwana ehlabathini ongathandi ukudlala: ukususela ebusana, abantwana banomtsalane ngeengqungquthela eziqhakazileyo, bezihlaziya iipiramidi, kwaye njengoko zikhula ziyakuthatyathwa ngamanye amathoyizi "abadala". Abantwana abaneminyaka emibili sele beqala ukukopisha indlela abaziphatha ngayo yabazali babo, beza kudlala izinto zokuphila kwangempela. Oku kunceda baqonde kangcono ihlabathi elijikelezayo, bahlakulele ingcamango baze bafunde ukuthetha nabanye abantwana. Ngoko ke, imidlalo yokudlala indima yabantwana ayinomdla nje kuphela, kodwa iyanceda kakhulu.
Imidlalo yabantwana
Kubaluleke kakhulu kunina kunye noobawo ukuxhasa abantwana kwili gama kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, bathathe inxaxheba kwimidlalo yokudlala indima yabantwana. Ziyakwazi ukubaluleka: ukuya esitolo, kwindawo yokutyela, kwikliniki; kwaye inkulu, ngokusekelwe kwimifanekiso yamathandwayo kunye neenganekwane. Ukugxininisa ukuthatha inxaxheba kwabazali kumdlalo wendima ebantwini kubantwana besigaba sokuqala akunakwenzeka, kuba ukuba umntwana akafundiswanga ukudlala, ngoko ukuzama kwakhe ukuguqula le nto okanye icebo lokuphila kuya kuba mfutshane kwaye kungathandeki. Khumbula ukuba imidlalo kufuneka ibe nomusa kwaye ifundise intsana into ebalulekileyo.
Enye yeemidlalo ezithandwayo zihlala zihlala kwaye "zihlala zithengisa". Ndicinga ukuba wonke umama nobaba kwaye bayazi ukuba uyayilandela ngokupheleleyo. Qinisekisa ukubandakanya ekulungiseleleni oko kulungelelaniswayo: lungiselela i-counter kunye nempahla oyithandayo, gcoba itekisi yentengo, njengemali ongayisebenzisa iinqununu zamaphepha, iimali zemali, amaqhosha, amacwecwe - yonke into ecinga ngayo ingcinga yomntwana. Iingcali ziqaphela ukuba iingcamango zabantwana, izinto eziqhelekileyo kunye namathoyizi "aguqulwa" kwii "zixhobo" ezinjalo abayidingayo ziphuculwe ngcono.
Imidlalo yabantwana abancinane
Umdlalo wendima ebalulekileyo ekuthatyathwa kwamabali kuba ngumntwana xa ehamba kwi-kindergarten. Ixesha elinjalo lokudibanisa lisiza abantwana ukuba bavumelane ngokukhawuleza kwindawo entsha, ukufumana abahlobo, ukuzama kwimifanekiso emitsha. Imidlalo yokudlala indima e-kindergarten ingasetyenziselwa njengobunjwa bekhaya, kwaye inkulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana badlala "intsapho" kunye "nesibhedlele", ngokuzimela ngokuhambisa iindima, ezinceda ootitshala ukuba bachane ngokuchanekileyo iinkokeli kunye nabantwana abangabasebenzi abakwiqela.
Ukubandakanya bonke abantwana kwiinkqubo zomdlalo, ootitshala basoloko basebenzisa amabali endalini zabo eziyintandokazi, babonisa ngeendima. Enye yeyona nto inomdla kakhulu kwaye inomdla ngumdlalo "I-Princess-Nonsmeyer": ngoncedo lwe-countdown u-princess kunye noTsar Berendey bakhethwe, abanye abantwana baphenduka bezama ukwenza i-Nesmeyan ehlekayo, umdlali obalaseleyo unqunywe ngu-king kwaye ufumana umvuzo olungiselelwe ngaphambili. Kwixesha elizayo, iindima zingatshintshwa. Lo mdlalo awuyikukholisa kuphela abantwana, kodwa unceda ekubonakaliseni iitalente kunye nobuchule bokusebenza.
Imidlalo yabantwana besikolo
Imidlalo yemidlalo yabantwana abasenkulungweni isele ingakumbi kwaye ichanekile. Ezi zifundo zichazwe ngokucacileyo, yaye abantwana bahlala bekwenza iingcebiso zabo zophuhliso. Kule minyaka, iindalana zidlalwa ngamacandelo, ukufunda iincwadi, ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba afunde nokuphucula indlela yokufunda. Imidlalo ebalulekileyo yabantwana besikolo sokuqala idibanisa ngokwabo iziqhelo ezininzi: umdlalo "kwiintsapho" ziquka ukuhamba esibhedlele, i-cafe, isikolo kunye namanye amaziko awaziwayo kwiintsana.
Ukubaluleka kwemidlalo yokudlala indima yabantwana, imizekelo yeziganeko ezinokuthi zinokuthethwa kakhulu, kodwa into efunekayo abazali ukuba bayikhumbule: umdlalo odibeneyo kunye nosana, ngaphezu kwakho konke, inkqubo yemfundo, indlela yokubonisa umntwana indlela oyithandayo ngayo. Musa ukulibala eli thuba: ubeke phambili zonke izinto ezibalulekileyo, qwa lasela i-crumb kwaye udlala nje nayo.