Kule nqaku, siza kukuxelela indlela yokunyamekela umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, ukuze le nkqubo inikezele kuwe kunye nosana oluthile oluvelele.
Ngendlela efanelekileyo ukutya umntwana osandul 'ubele nobisi lwebele?
Abasetyhini abaninzi emva kokutyunjwa kwecandelo lokuhlinzwa okanye ukubeletha ngokusemthethweni kungakwazi ukuhlala. Kule meko, iimeko ezingcono zokusondeza umntwana usenokulala, oko kukuthi:
- "Ngaphantsi kweengalo." Ibhinqa lilele embhedeni, lithembele kwi-forearm yakhe nentambo. I-crumb igqitywe ukuze umzimba wakhe uphendule umzimba womama kwaye uphakathi kwakhe kunye ne-forearm. Ukuba uhlala kule ndawo, umama kufuneka abambe intloko yesana ngesandla sakhe.
- "Ukulala ngakwesokunene sakhe" yindawo esithandwa kakhulu, ukuba uthathe, umama unako ukuphumla aze aphumle kancane. Intsana ibeka phezu komlobo emgqeni ejongene nonina ukuze intloko yakhe isesandleni sayo. Ngoko umntwana uyazibamba esifuba aze athabathe ingono. Ukuba ibhinqa, ekule ndawo, iphakamisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye inamathele engalo yayo, inokunika umntwana enye intsasa, nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukondla umntwana kule ndawo ixesha elide.
Ngendlela efanelekileyo ukutya abantwana abatsha abahleliyo?
Ukuze ukondle kakuhle umntwana osandul 'usana kunye nobisi lwebele ngendawo ehleli kuyo, kufuneka uyibeke ezandleni zakho kwindawo yokulala. Ukwenza oku, intloko mayibekwe kwisandla esinye, ngelixa umama wesibini kufuneka abambe kwaye abambe umqolo. Xa umntwana, ekule ndawo, isetyenziselwa umama "isisu esiswini", umlomo wakhe ukhangelene ngqo nomlenze, owenza lula ukuthunjwa.
Ukutshintsha isifuba kwindawo yokuhlala, i-crumb iya kufuneka ifakwe kwelinye icala, ibeka intloko yayo kwinqanaba elingaphambeneyo.