Ukubheka umntwana

Nangona umntwana esincinane kakhulu, indawo yakhe endlwini iyancitshiswa kwisibhedlele sakhe. Kodwa njengoko ikhula, ayanele - i-fidget encinci ayikwazi ukulala nje kwaye izama ukuphuma ukuyifundela ihlabathi elitsha kuye.

Kungekudala esi siganeko esibalulekileyo senzekile, abazali bayakulibala ngokuthula-ukushiya umntwana wedwa ekamelweni akusenakwenzeka. Abantwana bakhe abaqapheli ngengozi, ngoko ke nayiphi na into eyenza i-prank okanye nje ukubonakalisa inzululwazi ingaba nemiphumo engathandekiyo. Kodwa yonke into enomnqweno ngumntwana ongenakulinganiswa. Kwaye ukushiya kwisibhedlele esiqhelekileyo senkuni kuyingozi nje - inkunzi yenkomo iyakwazi ukuguqula kwaye ingqongqo, ingazama ukuphuma kwaye ihlangane phakathi kwamahlumela kunye njalo. Kule meko, i- thena iya kuhlangula, apho ungashiya umntwana ixesha elifutshane, ngaphandle kokwesaba ukhuseleko lwakhe.

Kodwa, ngelishwa, akusiyo yonke indawo yokuhlala evunyelwe ukuyibeka ngokukhululekile, ngoko ke indlela eyona ndlela enhle yentsapho enomntwana ingaba yindawo yokukhwela ibhantshi. Olu hlobo lwefenitshala ludibanisa lula kunye nokhuseleko, kunye nokuhamba-iipotyi kunye ne-annas ngabaguqulwa kwaye ziyakwazi ukuhamba xa zifuneka.

Iibana-i-annas zingabasebenzisa kakade iintsana, kuba ininzi yazo inqanaba lembini, oko kukuthi, bavumela ukubeka umthamo kwiindawo eziphakamileyo ezahlukeneyo. Nangona umntwana esincinci, inokuphakanyiswa phezulu, ngokukhawuleza ukuba i-karapuz ifunde indlela yokunyuka-yehlisa ngayo. Iimodeli eziqhelekileyo zeembhedlele-zokudlala kunye nomtya okhutshwayo kunye neetafile eziguqukayo-esi sixa siya kukhulisa isikhala ngaphandle kokubingelela intuthuzelo.

Yintoni elungile - i-riding-crib okanye iplanga?

Ukhetho ngalunye lunabanye abachasene nabo okanye abalandeli. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umbhede wokhuni ungokoqobo kwaye uhlambulukile - aluhlanganisi uthuli, njengendwangu emacaleni ama-arnas. Kodwa ngelo xesha, kunokuba yingozi kakhulu - umntwana unokutshitshisa umzila wesitimela kunye neentonga, kwaye uyigxininise kwaye iwele. Ukususela embhedeni webala lemidlalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba uphume, zizinzile kwaye zixhotyiswe ngokukhuseleko olongezelelweyo lokudlidliza.

Ukuchasene neenqanawa zamabhonana ekuthandweni komntu ngamnye womthi unokuthetha enye ingxabano, kodwa yinto ethile eyahlukileyo, yengqondo. Kukholelwa ukuba awukwazi ukudibanisa indawo yokulala kunye nombhede wegeyimu - ibhedi kufuneka yenzelwe kuphela ukulala. Ukufumana umntwana kwintonga yokubheka emini, ngexesha lomdlalo nobusuku, ukulala, kunokudala i-dissonance engqondweni, eya kubangela ukuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo nokulala.