Ngubani phakathi kwethu ongazange aphuphe ubomi obuhle, apho kuya kuba khona indlu yokunethezeka, iimoto ezixabisekileyo kunye nethuba lokungenzi imisebenzi yasekhaya? Kucacile ukuba kubomi obunjalo kubalulekile ukuba uzalwe ngempumelelo, okanye uhlale kakuhle. Kwaye inqaku lokugqibela lidla ngokuthatha umtshato ophumelelayo, kuba bambalwa kakhulu abantu abangayifumana kwi-smart life, kwaye inzondelelo enjalo yomsebenzi iya kwenza ingozi enkulu.
Kodwa akulula kakhulu kubayeni, kungekhona wonke umntu onokubonelela ngobukho obuhle, i-aristocrate yangempela iyadingeka kule nto. Yona kuphela ingxaki eYurophu yeenkosana ngeminwe inokubalwa, kwaye bonke baxakeke, ndimele ndenze ntoni? Mhlawumbi kulungele ukubeka ingqalelo kwiMpuma kunye nokucinga malunga nendlela yokutshata umkhosi?
Kuphi ukufumana i-sheikh?
Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuba ama-sheikhs ase-Arabhu ayengabalinganiswa bentombi, kodwa amadoda aqhelekileyo, banalo isikhwama esincinci kunabanye kunye nomkhwa wesithembu. Ukuba izithethe zamaSilamsi azikukhathazi, ke lixesha lokuya kukhangela "isikhulu" sakho.
Ngoku kunqweneleka ukukhetha uluhlu lwabahluleli abanomdla kakhulu, nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba akubona bonke abantu abacebile ngokwenene abathanda ukuziqhayisa ngokuphila kwabo, amaninzi amabhiliyoni angabonakali kuluntu jikelele. Ewe, abo abangafihla uluhlu lweForbes kufuneka bafundwe ngokusondeleyo, ngokukodwa bathathe ingqalelo kwimikhwa yabo, ukuze baqonde into enokuyilindela kumntu othile. Umzekelo, iNkosana yaseDaibra, uHaman Al-Maktoum, oneminyaka engama-31 ubudala, ithathwa njengenye yeengcezu ezihlwaya kakhulu, kodwa akusiyo yonke into enokukwazi ukumelana nomntu wayo, uyabonakala ekhangeleka kwaye ephanga kakhulu, ebonisa izibango eziqinileyo kubabenyulu esandleni sakhe nangentliziyo.
Ewe, ngoku unako kwaye uphando, inxinaniso enkulu yeesheikh e-UAE, kwaye ngokukodwa ku-Abu Dhabi. Apha iindawo zokudibanisa zininzi kunokwaneleyo-amahotele kunye neevenkile zokutya, izibheno ezintle kunye nesihlabathi se-velvet-yonke into kufuneka ifumane umviwa ogqityiweyo. Unyaka ngamnye e-Abu Dhabi bahlanganiselwa ukuboniswa kweemoto ezithandekayo - i-Big Boys Toys, imizekelo ekhethekileyo yezithuthuthu kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, i-yachts zentengiso zikhoyo apha. Akunakudinga ukuthetha, oosomashishini abaphumelele kakhulu banomdla wokuba baye kulo mcimbi? Kuyaphawuleka ukuba kungekhona nje i-sheikh zaseMpumalanga eza apha, kodwa kunye nabasomabhizinisi abavela eYurophu, ngoko ke loo ndawo iya kuhambelana nalabo abaza kubonakala bengenasidlangalaleni kwintlalo ye-Arab.
Ngokubanzi, i-Emirates ifanelekile ukukhangela i-suitors ngonyaka, njengeeholide ezinkulu, imikhosi kunye nezinye iziganeko zihlala zilapha. Kwiminyaka emibini edlulileyo, isiqithi kufuphi ne-Abu Dhabi sikhusele iklabhu ye-yacht kubaxhamli. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukufika akulula, ngaphandle kokuba uzama ukufumana umsebenzi apho - umncedisi okanye umkhonzazana. Mhlawumbi unethamsanqa kwaye kungekudala uza kubuya khona, kodwa sele usisindwendwe esizukileyo.
Indlela yokuphumelela i-sheikh?
Masithi into efunyenweyo, yintoni emele ndiyenze ngokulandelayo? Ewe, ukuba unqobe, usebenzisa iinqwelo zentsimbi yakho. Kuphela kufuneka ukhumbule imiba embalwa, kuba uya kuma-ohmurat kwilizwe lamaSilamsi. Ngoko ungabonisi zonke iirhafu zakho, oku kungento esingamkelekanga, kwaye nakhona kwaye kunye nonke kuya kuba ngumqondiso wesifazane okhutshiwe. Kwakhona, akudingeki ukuba uziphathe kakuhle, oku akuyi kuvumela ukuba amadoda akuthathe ngokungathí sina.
Kuvinjelwe ngokungqongqo ukutshaya nokusela utswala kufuphi nomntu oyithandayo, kwaye ukuba uya kutshata naye, kuya kufuneka ubalekele ngemikhwa emibi .
Yenza ngokuzithoba nangokuzithobayo, emazweni aseArabhu amabhinqa akufanele abonise esidlangalaleni imizwa yabo. Wena, kunjalo, unokukwazi ukufumana enye into, kodwa nje encinci, ukuze ibe "ukugqamisa" kwakho, kwaye ungayesabi umyeni.
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuthatha intsebenziswano ye-Arabhu, uya kufuneka uzibophelele kwizipho ezingabizi kwaye uhambe, izenzo ezininzi ezisebenzayo ziya kutshabalalisa idumela lakho ngonaphakade.