Abantu baphendukela elukholweni kwiminyaka eyahlukileyo, kwaye oko kwenzeka xa umntu efuna induduzo okanye uncedo. Izibheno kuThixo zivela ngokufunda imibhalo yomthandazo, enentsingiselo enzulu. Yonke imihla uyilungiselela umntu uvavanyo oluhlukeneyo, ups and downs. Ukuze ungakhathazeki kwaye ungabhekana neengxaki ezahlukeneyo, kubalulekile ukukhuselwa kwamaQumrhu aPhakamileyo.
Usuku lwayo, ngokwemithetho ye-Orthodoxy, kuyisiko ukuqala ngomthandazo wamasa. Inceda ukuhlawula ngendlela efanelekileyo, ukufumana intsikelelo nenkxaso. Abantu abasanda kuphendukela elukholweni, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda ukuhamba kwiikontoni kunye nezithethe zecawa.
Imithetho yemithandazo yasekuseni yabaqalayo
Kuze kube yimini, kukho imithandazo emininzi efanelekileyo ukukhetha ngokuxhomekeka kwiimeko. Isenzo sokuqala nesona sibaluleke kakhulu ukurhoxiswa nguSathana . Akukho mithetho eqinile yokufunda iimibhalo kunye nomoya wokomoya kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngethuba lokuguquka kuThixo, umkholi kufuneka abe nokuzola, angabi nasiphi na iimvakalelo ezimbi kwaye angacingi ngantoni na ngaphandle kweNkosi. Ngombulelo onokholo oluchanileyo sinokulindela ukuba amandla aphakamileyo aya kuphulaphula umthandazo aze aphendule kuwo. Imithetho yasekuseni yokubiza umthandazo ilula kakhulu: kuqala kufuneka uhlambe kwaye ugqoke kwiingubo ezifanelekileyo. Kukulungele ukumelana noThixo ngoxa wedwa, ngoko akukho nto iphazamisayo kwaye iphazamise. Kufuneka ufunde umthandazo ngaphambi komfanekiso, sele ubeke ikhandlela elikhanyisiweyo okanye isibane esilandelayo. Unokufunda itekisi ngentliziyo, kodwa kubaqalayo kunzima, ngoko sebenzisa iincwadi zokuthandaza. Ngaphambi kokuba ufunde umbhalo wokuthandaza, kubalulekile ukubonga uThixo ngoobusuku obudlulileyo, kwaye ngoko, unokuthi umthandazo omfutshane wabasaqalayo, kunye nombhalo womqokeleli werhafu:
"Nkosi Yesu Kristu, Nyana kaThixo, ndinenceba kum umoni."
Musa ukuthobela lo mthandazo omfutshane, onamandla amakhulu. Afundwa nje kuphela kusasa, kodwa nangaphambi kokushiya indlu okanye nayiphi na imicimbi echaphazelekayo. Ungabuyela kuThixo ngamazwi akho, uxelele malunga nento engqondweni yakho, ziziphi iinjongo kunye neminqweno. Ukunyanga okunyanisekileyo kuya kukuvumela ukuba ugxothe imithwalo kunye nefowuni kumswakama omhle.
Umthandazo unokukwaziswa kwicawa omele uhambe ngaphandle kokutya kwasekuseni, lo mgaqo awusebenzi kubantu abagulayo. Kufanelekile ukuthobela ingubo, ngoko ke umfazi kufuneka abe nekhwele elide kunye nentloko ehlanganiswe ngesikhwama. Ukungena ethempelini, kufuneka uwele emathathu kwaye uqubude.
Umthandazo wasekuseni "UBawo wethu" ufanelekile ukuthetha noThixo, kokubili etempileni nasekhaya, ngokubanzi, kuthathwa njengento yonke. Ukufunda lo mthandazo, umntu, ngokungathi uhlawula umvuzo kwiMandla aPhakamileyo, ukuthumela ukubonga ngokubavumela ukuba bavuke baze banike olunye usuku lokuphila. Abantu abaphendukele ekukholweni, kuyafaneleka ukuba bazi ukuba unokukufunda kwakhona kwiimeko ezinzima zobomi, xa ufuna uncedo nenkxaso. Umbhalo womthandazo ungolu hlobo lulandelayo:
Umntu ngamnye unesithunywa somlondolozi osondeleyo kwaye unceda ukujamelana neengxaki ezahlukeneyo. Ungayilungisa ngemibandela eyahlukileyo. Kukhona umthandazo okhethekileyo wentsasa kumlindi wesigxina, okumele kufundwe ukubulela, ukucela ukuxolelwa nokufumana ukhuseleko. Umbhalo walo mthandazo unje:
"Ingelosi engcwele, elinde umphefumlo wam etyhiweyo kunye nobomi obunomdla,
Ungandishiyi ngaphantsi komoni, ungaphantsi kwam ngenxa yokungazi.
Musani ukunika idemon engendawo, ndibubundlobongela balo mzimba ofayo;
Qinisekisa umchasi nesandla sam esinqabileyo, undifundise endleleni yensindiso.
Yena, ingelosi kaThixo engcwele, umgcini nomkhuseli womphefumlo wam kunye nomzimba oqalekisiweyo
Ndixolele bonke, ngobubi bonke obukhubekileyo yonke imihla yesisu sam,
kwaye ukuba kukho nawuphi na owonayo kulobu busuku obuwileyo, undigubungele namhlanje,
kwaye undigcine kuzo zonke izilingo ezichasene naye,
Ewe, andiyi kumthiya uThixo,
ndiyithandazele iNkosi, ukuze andimise ngomonde wakhe,
kwaye umkhonzi wobubele bakhe uya kulungele ukubonisa.
Amen. "
Omnye umthandazo onamandla onokufundwa kusasa nguMoya oyiNgcwele. Oku kunzima ukuyiqonda lo mthandazo wendala, kodwa uyasebenza. Awuyi kufunda kuphela ekuseni, kodwa ngaphambi kokutya. Umbhalo womthandazo ungolu hlobo lulandelayo:
"UKumkani waseZulwini, uMduduzi, uMoya weNyaniso, othe wahamba aze azalisekise konke, ubutyebi bezinto ezilungileyo nobomi boMniki, uze uze uhlale phakathi kwethu, usicocise kuzo zonke izinto ezihlambulukileyo, usindise, Hayi, imiphefumlo yethu."