Ukuhlamba kuyimfuneko yemihla ngemihla, kwaye kubantwana abancinci luhlobo lwesithethe esinceda ukuzola nokulala. Nangona abazali bafundisa abantwana babo ukuba badabuka ukusuka kwiintsuku zokuqala zokuphila, isimo sabo sengqondo kwimigaqo yamanzi iyahluka. Omnye uyavuya ngokukhawuleza aze adlala emanzini, ahlalise ngokuzenzekelayo aze athawule, kwaye umntu odilikayo, kwaye ngokubanzi yonke into enxulumene namanzi nokuhlamba iba ngumthombo wokwesaba. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bayakhalaza ukuba ngaphambili bezolile kwaye benothando ukugibela umntwana, ngokukhawuleza besaba ukubhada, benqaba ukungena kwigumbi lokuhlambela, njl njl. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba akukho nto yokwesaba kwamanzi kwiintsana - abantwana abasandul 'ukutshabalala ngenxa yokuqhaqhazela emanzini, bazivakalela kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo zamanzi ukuba zilula kwaye zikhululeke. Isizathu sokwenza ukwesaba kamva kukuba singabantu abadala.
Kutheni umntwana eyika amanzi?
Isizathu esona siqhelo sokwesaba kukukhunjulwa okanye ukungathandeki. Ngokomzekelo, amanzi kwindawo yokuhlambela ishushu kakhulu okanye inkwenkwe yengozi, yatshutshiswa yi-jet enamandla esuka eshahleni, ingaphumeleli kakuhle, iginyile amanzi, isepha yafika emehlweni am, njl njl.
Zama ukukhumbula ukuba yintoni eyoyikwesa umntwana, kwaye unakekele ukususa umthombo wesantya-jonga ukushisa kwamanzi, sebenzisa iziqhumiso zabantwana ezingacasuliyo, ubeke umtya ongaphantsi kwebhanti okanye usebenzise isitulo esithile esikhethekileyo sokuhlamba. Ukuba umntwana uyamoyika amanzi, musa ukumenza adibanise, ungagcini ngamanzi ngokunyanzela - oku kuya kulucima nje imeko.
Kukho amaxesha amaninzi xa umntwana esaba ukugebha kwindawo yokuhlambela, kodwa kulula ukufumana iinkqubo zamanzi kwenye indawo.
Ungakusindisa njani umntwana ngenxa yokwesaba ukubhukuda?
- Musa ukunyanzelisa, yenza yonke into kancane. Ngokomzekelo, i-crumb calmly imile emanzini kwi-ankle, kodwa xa iqanaba layo lifika emadolweni, liqala ukukhala. Ungagxininisi, vumela kuqala uhlambele kumanzi "amancinci", kunye nebhayisi nganye uphakamisa umgangatho wamanzi. Ukuba umntwana uyesaba ukuba emanzini, ungayigcinanga kwindawo yokuhlambela ixesha elide, zama ukugqiba ukuhlamba ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uya kwandisa ixesha lokusetyenziswa kwamanzi xa umntwana esetyenziswe kuyo.
- Musa ukugculela ukwesaba, ungamfaki umntwana kumzekelo wabanye abantwana abahamba ngokugqithiseleyo baze bahlambe kakuhle.
- Ungashiyi enye kwindawo yokuhlambela. Abazali bavame ukuba bakholelwa ukuba abantwana aba-5-7 ubudala sele sele bazimeleyo kwaye bafanele bazihlambe. Okwangoku, ukukrazula ukwesaba kweemvuthu, uncedo lwakho kunye nenkxaso yakho iya kufuneka. Yiba naye ngexesha lokuhlambela, umxube ngamanzi, ukuze angagcini, adlala naye ngamathoyizi egxobhozo - konke oku kuya kumenza okulungileyo.
- Vula ukuhlamba ube ngumdlalo. Ukudlala, umntwana uphazamiseka kwiimvakalelo kunye nokwesaba, uzive eqinisekile. Ungasebenzisa amathoyizi e-rubber, amacwecwe ambala, iibhola ze-sipu - nayiphi na into eya kunceda umntwana ukuba aphazamise.