Amantombazana amaninzi anqwenela ukuyeka ukusondelana ngexesha lokuya esikhathini, ukucinga ngesondo ngeli xesha njengento ethi "ingcolileyo" kwaye ingakhuselekanga. Ngaba ngokwenene ukuba ukulala ngesithuba sexesha kunokukhokelela kwimiphumo engathandekiyo okanye kungalimazi le ntsizi engathandekiyo, siya kujongana nenkambo yale nqaku.
Ubundlobongela ngexesha lokuya esikhathini: kunobungozi okanye akunjalo?
Kwiinkonzo ezininzi, ixesha lokunyuka kwexesha lithathwa njengexesha lokuhlambulula, ngoko ke, ubudlelwane obusondeleyo ngaloo mihla kwavalwa. Asiyi kuthintela izihloko ezinqulo ezintle, kodwa siya kuqwalasela ingozi yesondo ngeli xesha ukusuka kumbono wonyango.
- Kukho uluvo lokuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe xa ulala ngesondo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini. Ingxenye yanjalo kunjalo, amathuba okuchumisa ngelo xesha aphantsi. Kodwa umngcipheko wokufumana intloko ngeendlela zokukhulelwa okungafuneki kusekhona, ngenxa yobuchule be-spermatozoa ukugcina ubunzima babo kwiintsuku ezi-3. Ukunyamekela ngokukodwa kufuneka ube ngamantombazana, apho ukuhamba kwakhe kuhamba iintsuku eziyi-3-4.
- Kodwa kufuneka uzikhusele kungekhona nje ngenxa yokwesaba ukukhulelwa, iziphumo zesini esingakhuselekanga ngexesha lingaba nezifo ezahlukileyo. Igazi lihle kakhulu kumgangatho wezondlo kwiibhaktheriya, kunye nentamo evulekileyo yombeleko yenza lula ukungena kwezifo. Ngoko ke, ukuba elinye iqabane lijongene neengxaki zoluhlobo lobudlelwane phakathi kwesikhatho.
- Ukuba sithetha ngeentlobo zesini, ngokuphephile kuphela ngomlomo, ukulala ngesondo kuyavunyelwa ngelixa uqwalasela imilinganiselo yokhuseleko oluyimfuneko, kodwa kwi-sex anal analesi ntsuku kungcono ukuyeka. Njengoko sele kuthethwe ngaye, ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini, umngcipheko wokubamba usulelo sele usuphakamileyo, kwaye ngokulala komzimba kwandisa amaxesha amaninzi kwaye ukusetyenziswa kwamakhondom apha kweli phepha akusayi kugcina ukudluliselwa kosulelo.
- Ulwalamano kwixesha elinjalo lunokubangela ukuvakalelwa okuninzi kwiintlobo zombini. Igazi elijikelezayo kwizitho zokuzala likhulisa ukuqonda kwabo, linika i-orgasm ekhawulezayo kunye neqaqambileyo kumfazi. Ibhinqa eliqhawulayo linikeza ubungqina obunzima bepenis, obangela ukunikwa kwengqondo emnandi kumlingane. Nangona kunjalo, oogqirha bancomela ukuba bangangeni kwisini kwiintsuku eziyi-2-3 zokuqala, ngelixa ulwabiwo luninzi.
- Kwamanye amabhinqa, isondo ngexesha lexesheni liyanciphisa intlungu. Oku kubangelwa ukuvuselelwa kwe-ejection yamanzi, ekhupha i-edema yesisu kunye nokunciphisa intlungu. Kodwa oku kuyinyaniso kuphela ukuba i- orgasm ifumaneka. Kwakhona, ngenxa yokunyuka kwegazi, ii-endometrium zefa zihamba ngokukhawuleza, ezinciphisa ixesha lokuya esikhathini. Kwezinye iimeko, emva kwe-orgasm, intlungu iyakubonwa, kulo meko nayiphi na imithi yonyango ekhupha i-spasms ayiyi kunceda.
- Abaninzi abasetyhini banqabana ngesondo ngeli xesha, besaba ukwesatshisa iqabane kunye negazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi nkxalabo ziyize, i-sexologists sele ifumene ukuba abantu baninzi babonisa umdla ngokukhethekileyo kwisiqingatha sawo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini, kwaye akubona bonke abantu abanoyika. Ukongezelela, akukho mntu uyakukuthintela ukuba ukhethe indlu yokuhlambela ukuze usondelane ngaloo mihla. Ewe, ukuba unquma ukuhlala embhedeni,
ngoko kufuneka nje unakekele ubukho bamacu amanzi kwaye ubeke into ephezulu kwiphepha ukukhusela ekungcoleni. Ukunciphisa inani leemfihlo, sebenzisa indawo yezithunywa zevangeli zakudala, kuba ezinye iimeko ziza kunika igalelo legazi elikhulu.
Ngaloo ndlela, ukulala ngesini kwiintsuku ezibalulekileyo akuyinto engavunyelwe. Nangona ukujonga ukhuseleko oluyimfuneko kunye nococeko, le nqubo ayibangeli nantlungu ingozi kwimpilo yabasetyhini. Ngoko ukuba umnqweno uyabambisana, ke ungaziphiki ukuzonwabisa.