Ukwabelana ngesondo kwakusoloko. Kwasekude kwiSoviet Union, xa zonke ezi zifihliwe ngokucokisekileyo kwaye abantu babe neentloni zabo. Ezinye izihlandlo zifikile: ithelevishini kunye neendaba azifihla iinkcukacha ezithintekayo zobomi babantu. Wonke umntu uyazi ngesondo kwaye akukho mntu unentloni ngalo msebenzi. Ngokuphambene noko, kubonakala ezininzi iinkqubo zeTV, uncwadi, olubandakanya imiba "yobugcisa bothando". Ubundlobongela buhluke, kwaye nangoko Ngale nto uze uthethe namhlanje.
Uphi na nini?
Ngaphantsi kweemeko ubuhlobo obungathandabuli kunye nesondo? Ngokuqhelekileyo, iimeko ezinjalo zenzeka apho kukho abameli abaninzi besini esahlukileyo, iziphuzo "ezitshisa", ezonwabileyo kunye nokuqhuba:
- iklabhu yo busuku. Umoya ongakhathazekiyo, ukhululekile kwaye udlala ngothando, obusondelene nawo - konke oku kungaphezulu kwesizathu esilindelekileyo sokuhamba kwamathuba omsebenzi wobusuku obunothando. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuqhelana kwenzeka emva kwe-counter counter, apho intombazana "enhle" ikwazi ukuba "indoda enomusa". Ukuba bobabili baphishekela ukulala ngesondo kunye nomntu ongenasiphelo, ngoko ke kunjalo. Makube ngunyanisekileyo, kukho abo banqwenela ukuba bahlehlise iminqweno yabo yesondo baze babe nesondo kwiqela, befumana indawo efanelekileyo kule ndawo efihliweyo;
- ibhafu kunye ne-saunas. Option ukuqhubeka ukutshata kwi nightclub. Izakhiwo zeholide zanamhlanje zinikezela ngamagumbi adibanisa, apho unokufumana intliziyo yakho kwaye ujabulele ukusondelana nomlingane wakho. Kubukeka kanje: unikwe ukuba udibise echibini, ufike kwindawo kwaye "ngengozi" ulala ngesondo;
- hotele. Ukuza nokuthatha igumbi akuyona ingxaki namhlanje. Kuya kuba nemali, njengoko bethetha. Ukulala ngesondo ngokungaqhelekanga - oku kwanele iiyure ezimbalwa. Into ephambili akuyiyo ukugcina ukucoceka, induduzo kunye nedumela le-complex hotel.
Ngoobani kwaye kutheni?
Ukulala ngokwesondo, njengommiselo, kwenzeka kumfokazi. Ulwalamano olungekho phantsi kobudlelwane "ngobusuku" - le nto iyimfihlo kumntu wonke. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba utshatile okanye ulwalamano oluqinileyo, ubuhlobo bakho bubhekwa njengokungcatsha. Ukulala ngokwesondo ngokudakwa, kule ngxaki, kunokuphela "imeko". Uxanduva lwakho lokuziphatha kakubi kuwe akukho mntu uyasusa.
Kutheni umntu ehamba kuyo yonke into ebalulekileyo? Izizathu zingaba zihluke kakhulu:
- umnqweno wesini. Kumntu, isondo kukufuneka okokuqala. Iqhwala "inqweno" inqanda ukucinga ngenye into;
- ukukhanga umntu othile. Ukukhawuleza kweemvakalelo kunye nokunyamekela kumntu kungabangela isondo esingasini. Yintoni enokuyenza emva kwesi siganeko, ngakumbi ukuba isondo sasingakhuselekanga? Okokuqala, jonga izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo kunye nokukhulelwa okungenzeka. Okwesibini, ungaziva unetyala, kuba akukho nto yokulungisa. Yamkela iziganeko kwaye uzame ukufumana ixesha elihle (ubuncinane ngesini ngokwaso);
- uxinzelelo, ukudandatheka. Susa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ukukhathala nokuxhalabisa. Ukuba unesifo esixinzelelekileyo, kukho ukulala ngokwesondo kunye nomhlobo okanye intombi. Abahlobo badibana, babelana ngeentlungu kunye neengxaki zabo, babela kwimpilo, balala;
- ndezela. Buyiselwe intanda yakho ngale ndlela - le ngcamango isoloko. Kuphela phi i-logic? Ukuba uthanda,
Ngaba uya kulimaza le ndoda? Apha uzama ukuzithuthuzela. - umdla nomdla. Le yeso sizathu esiqhelekileyo sezesondo zesondo ezingaqhelekanga. Kwiqela elifanayo, amantombazana amabini angaya e "busuku obunzima" kunye nomntu omnye okanye ngaphezulu. Utywala kwiimeko ezinjalo kubangela "imimangaliso". Ngokugqithiseleyo, iintombi ziqala ukugxininisa kwaye zize ziqaphele ukuba ziya kuhlanganiswa yinkwenkwe evuyisayo yiyo yabona.
Khumbula ukuba yonke into ilungele ukumodareyitha kwaye yonke into kufuneka isondele ngokufanelekileyo. Khangela injabulo apho kungekho ingozi kwimpilo yakho nangobomi.