Kude ixesha elide apho impumelelo yobomi obusondelene nabo buxhomekeke kuphela kuloo ndoda. Namhlanje, umfazi unako kwaye kufuneka athathe inyathelo lokwenza isondo ngokucacileyo kwaye ujabulise. Ngoko, kufuneka ukuba azi indlela yokubonelela ngokwenene umntu olele embhedeni. Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezifanelekileyo zokwenza oku.
Indlela yokukholisa umntu olele embhedeni: ukulungiselela
Kwimibuzo yendlela yokufumana kunye nokonwabela embhedeni, umfazi kufuneka acinge zonke izinto ezincinci. Ngoko ke, ngexesha lolwalamano, kuyafaneleka ukulungiselela kwangaphambili.
Okokuqala, uqhube uhlalutyo lokuqala. Khumbula oko umlingane wakho akuthandayo ebhedeni, luhlobo luni lweengxaki ezithatha kakhulu. Mhlawumbi wakuthetha ngento ethile yeengcamango zesondo ezo aphupha ngazo. Zama ukusebenzisa olu lwazi ngexesha lolwalamano.
Okwesibini, kufuneka udale i-entourage efanelekileyo, ukuzilungisa kunye neqabane lakho ngendlela efanelekileyo. Mcokise, nangona kungokuhlwa ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye into yakho yindoda oye kunye naye iminyaka engaphezu konyaka. Kuya kuthotywa ngakumbi xa uqala ukudlala ngothando kunye nokuzimisela ukulala ngesondo, ukubonisa intshiseko. Qinisekisa ukuzibeka ngokwakho, akukhathani ngokuklama nokuhlwaya, kodwa ukuhlamba okumnandi, ukususwa kweenwele, iingaphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi. Qiniseka ukuba utshintshe ilinen kunye nebhedi yomtshato, vula ukukhanya okukhanya okubusuku okanye ukukhanyisa amakhandlela, unokuvula umculo omnene. Ngaphambi kokulala, ngokuqinisekileyo, yondla loo ndoda, kodwa isidlo akufanele sibe nzima, kufuneka uyenze, ukuze kungaphazanyiswa "kwikhosi ephakamileyo", kodwa yidlwengulo yesondo kuphela.
Indlela yokuhlangula into enokulibaleka ngayo umntu olele embhedeni?
Ukuze ukuvisisana kubekho phakathi kwamaqabane, kungekhona nje umntu omele azi indlela yokubonelela ngokwenene kumfazi olele embhedeni, kodwa intombazana yakhe kufuneka isebenze kule ngxaki.
- Nika ingqalelo kwi-caresses yangaphambili kwaye ungabi namahloni, uthinte umzimba womntu wakho yonke indawo. Kodwa ngaba akunjalo nje ngugqirha ngexesha lokuhlolwa kwangokwenyama - ngokubonakalisa ubuso obunzulu, kodwa ukulingela. Ngokomzekelo, ngexesha lokusasaza okanye ukudlala. Oku kuya kunceda ukuchonga imimandla ephosakeleyo, esebenzayo apho unokuhlala unika ukuzonwabisa okungenakulibaleka kumlingane.
- Ungesabi ukuzama into entsha, umgaqo wesithando + ezihlukahlukeneyo = ukuzonwabisa kwindawo yokulala ihlala isebenza ngokungenasiphelo. Zama ukumangalisa indoda yakho, yenza into ayengayilindele kuwe, umzekelo, yenza umsizi we-prostate kwaye uyisebenzise ngexesha lomzimba wesondo. Amalungu amaninzi obundlobongela obuqinileyo avuma ukuba azivala ngokungahambi kakuhle kwiimeko ezinjalo.
- Yeka iintloni kunye neenkathazo, khumbula ukuba ufuna into enokuhlazeka. Ekubhedeni akukho zithintelo kude kube yinto apho kwenzekayo kufana nabalingani bobabini.
Ukukhululwa ngokupheleleyo, ungayeki isondo ngomlomo okanye ngesilwanyana, ngaphandle kokuba ufumane ubunzima obungokwemvelo. Ungazibandakanyi kwintetho yeemvakalelo : ukukhala okanye ukuxolisa, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene, cela ngaphezulu, ukuqala, njl. - Musa ukukhawulela ukulala, kuba ukubonakala okukhanyayo kufumaneka kwisondo ekhitshini, kwindawo yokuhlambela, nasemotweni. Phakamisa umntu ukuba azame, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kujongana naloo mbono.
- Phakamisa ukuba ubukele kunye kunye ne-pornography, qala "ukuphazamisa" le ndoda ngelixa ukhangele, zama ukudlala indima yentombazana ekhrinini. Gqiba kuphela ukudlala kude kube sekupheleni, ngaphandle koko umntu uya kudana.