Ingaphezulu kwesiqingatha sabo bonke abaqeqeshi bayeka ukusebenza kwabo kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala, kwaye abo basalayo baninzi "banqanyulwa" ngunyaka wokuqala. Sonke siyazi ukuba umdlalo uncedo, unempilo kwaye untle. Siyamthanda ngokumnxusa nokukhanga ukujonga iifoto kunye nezinye iimpumelelo zabantu, sihlale silungele ukufunda ngendlela umntu alahleke ngayo kwaye ukhululekile, kodwa xa lixesha lokuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala ngokwayo - kukho imingcele eyahlukileyo. Omnye uthi "ayikho i-destiny", kodwa umntu ufumene umququzelelo wobuqu.
Ezemidlalo zengqondo zithi ...
Kubonakala ukuba kukho uqeqesho olunjenge-psychologist yezemidlalo. Kungenzeka ukuba aba bantu abazange bakhulise i-dumbbells, kodwa bazinikezela ubomi babo bonke kwiimeko ezinobungqingili eziphakanyiswe ngezandla zabanye. Ngoko ke, ezi zengqondo zenze uluhlu lwezinto ezinokubakhuthaza impilo yabo ntombazana engazange ayeke imidlalo kwiminyaka yokuqala ye-3 okanye kwiinyanga ezili-12 ezizayo:
- umnqweno wokuba noxanduva kunye nokwanele, ukufunda indlela yokuphila ubomi bakho;
- ukuzithemba ukuba ngaphandle kokufaneleka, impilo eqhelekileyo, ubomi obungapheliyo akunakwenzeka;
- ukuvakalelwa kweetalente kunye namandla abo kwimidlalo enikeziweyo;
- Ukusetyenziswa koqeqesho njengento yokuphumla;
- umnqweno wokuphila ngendlela enempilo.
Ngamanye amagama, ukuba ulawula "ukuqhuba" ezi nkcazo kuwe, awuyi kuphinda ufune intshukumo yokuzilolonga kwabafazi.
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Ukujika
Kwiinyanga zokuqala zokuqeqesha, musa ukuzivumela ukuba uzilahleke phantsi kweyiphi na ingqiqo. Kufuneka wenze impilo yabo imovo, ngoko njalo,
Injongo
Ukuze udale ukukhuthaza impilo yabasetyhini, kufuneka uqonde ukuba kutheni ufuna impilo. Akukho mntu ongenanto enokuyenza, kwaye nangaphezulu, akayi kuhlala e-gym. Akukho nto yokwenza kodwa ubukele imiboniso yeTV. Yinjongo yakho? Fu maneka? Ngoku zibeka ixesha elide: ixesha elide kunye nexesha elifutshane. Rekhoda amanyathelo akho kunye nempumelelo, kunye nokuhluleka kwindlela eya kwinjongo.
Uluhlu olumnyama nolomhlophe
Yenza uluhlu lwezinto eziza kwenzeka xa ulahlela ukusebenza kwakho. Bhala malunga nophuhliso lwakho lwexesha elizayo ngaphandle kokuqina. Ngoku yenza uluhlu lwezinto eziza kutshintsha ebomini bakho ukuba uqhubeke nezifundo zakho. Uyithandile? Ngoku, khangela umculo wokukhuthaza impilo. Zama ukuphumla ukucinga malunga nokuqeqesha, ukusetyenziswa kwimeko yazo yobunzima ebomini bakho.