Abanye abafazi emva kokuqhawula umtshato abafuni ukulala ngesondo nomntu owayengumyeni. Isiqhelo okanye okanye sisengxaki enkulu, masizame ukuyifumanisa.
Izizathu zobudlelwane "obungaqhelekanga"
- Ukwahlukana kwakuyimpazamo, kwaye usayithanda umyeni wakho wangaphambili. Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo, unokuluyisa ukunqwenela kwakhe, ingakumbi ukuba ungeze umlilo kumlilo kwaye uthi uyamthanda, uyaphoswa kwaye ufuna ukubuyisela yonke into. Kungenokwenzeka ukuba, ngokusa kusasa emva kobusuku obushushu, bobabili uyazisola ngokuba wenza. Kungcono kwiimeko ezinjalo ukuba ungabandakanyi nxamnye naluphi na uqhagamshelwano nomyeni wangaphambili kwaye umgxotha ebomini bakhe.
- Ngeendleko zesondo kunye nomntu owayekade ufuna ukuzifakazela. Emva kokuqhawula umtshato, uziva ucinezelekile kwaye akukho mntu ufune, kwaye isondo sinokuqiniseka ngokuchaseneyo. Kule meko, ukulala ngesondo kunye nomyeni wangaphambili akusizi, kukulungele ukufumana iqabane elitsha eliza kuhlangabezana neemfuno zakho.
- Ukwabelana ngesondo kulungile kwimpilo. Awunalo ubuhlobo obusondeleyo emva komtshato. Kwaye ukuhlala ulawule , njengokuba uyazi, kungabikho kwimpilo. Kule meko, isondo kunye nolwangaphambili luyinto eyamkelekileyo, kuba ngaphandle kokuneliseka kweemfuno zakho, awunomdla nantoni na. Xa umntu omtsha ebonakala ekugqibeleni, kufuneka unye kunye nokuyeka bonke ubudlelwane bezesondo kunye nabangaphambili.
- Umyeni owayesakuba nguyena mhle ngokuthelekiswa nabanye. Emva koqeqesho "lwangonyaka" uyazi zonke iingongoma zakho kwaye ngomzuzwana ungakhulisa i-orgasm engayibalekiyo, engasebenzi kubalingane abatsha. Lapha ufanele uqonde ukuba indoda ayizange ifunde ngokukhawuleza oku, ngoko umonde omncinci kunye nomntu omtsha uya kufumana ulonwabo olufanayo, mhlawumbi ngaphezulu.
Iinkonzo zobudlelwane obunjalo
Ezi zichazwe ngasentla zizathu, kukho amacala amaninzi amnandi:
- Uyazi ukuba awuthandi omnye;
- awudingi ukujonga umntu ukuba ahlangabezane neemfuno zakho;
- Ngoku unalo ubudlelwane obuvulekile nomyeni wakho wangaphambili kwaye unelungelo lokwenza nantoni na oyifunayo;
- Ngale ndlela ungayibonisa ukuba waphulukana;
- kukho ithuba elikhulu lokuba uza kuphinda uphume kunye nomyeni wakho.
Iimigodi zolo dlelwane
Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nomyeni wangaphambili kuya kuwonakalisa ubuhlobo bakho obutsha. Ukuze ube nethuba lokwakha ulwalamano olutsha kwaye utshatile kwakhona, kufuneka ulahle yonke into ekubopheleyo. Xa umyeni omtsha enomfazi omtsha, uya kushiywa yinto, kwaye uya kuhlupheka ngakumbi. Imemori inokuphazamisa umphefumlo, uya kuziva ucinezelekile kwaye unyathelwe, kwaye uya kuba nomvakalelo ongazange usebenze.
Zivavanye
Ukuze ukwazi ukuzivavanya uze uqonde oko kuthetha ntoni, ngokuba ulala ngesondo, uphendule le mibuzo elandelayo:
- Ngaba unomnqweno wokubuyisela umyeni wakho wangaphambili?
- Ukuba unayo imvakalelo engalunganga kumntu wangaphambili?
- Ngaba usamthanda?
- Ukuba ulala naye, kuya kuthintela ubomi bakho?
- Ngaba le nto ingumqobo wokuqalisa ubomi obutsha?
Ukuba yonke imibuzo owanike yona impendulo engalunganga, ngoko isondo kunye nomntu owayengumyeni ongekho nto, uyanelisa nje iimfuno zakho. Kwaye ukuba ubuncinane umbuzo obangela ukuba ungaba nokungaqiniseki kuwe, ke kungcono ukunqanda uxhulumano olunjalo.
Isiphelo
Qonda ukuba isondo esinjalo sinokuba "rake", ohlala uhlaselayo. Ubuhlobo obunjalo buya kuphinda lukhumbule zonke iimbongo, phakathi kwazo ziphi na ezimbi, kuba usasaqhawula umtshato. Ngokuqhelekileyo, zenzele isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukwenzela ntoni kwaye wenze kuphela ukhetho lwakho.