Ukungabi ngesondo

Iingcali zenzululwazi emhlabeni jikelele sele zenze inkcazo ecacileyo: ubulili kubalulekile kwimeko yempilo yengqondo kunye nengqondo. Kuze kube namhlanje, abaninzi bayazi malunga neengxaki ezidibene nezesondo - izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo, ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo. Kodwa bambalwa abantu bacinga ngendlela ukungabikho kwesondo kuchaphazela impilo yabasetyhini. Izizathu zokungabikho kwesondo kubantu besetyhini kunye namadoda, ngokusemthethweni , zihlukile. Izizathu eziphambili ezivela kubasetyhini - ukungabikho komlingani, iingxaki zobomi bobulili emtshatweni, ukungabikho komnqweno wesini kunye nabanye.

Ekuqaleni, abaninzi abafazi abanamathele ngokubaluleka kwinani lezonxibelelwano zesondo. Ngokukodwa uxhatshazwa ngabafazi beentsapho kunye nabantwana, abaneengxaki ezininzi zasekhaya okanye abafazi, abanomdla kakhulu kwi-career. La mabhinqa ahlala ephulaphula into yokuba abazange balala ngesithuba seenyanga. Kodwa ukungabikho kwezesondo ngokukhawuleza kuyingozi kubo bonke abasetyhini, bexakeke kakhulu. Unyaka ongenawo wesondo unokwenza ukuba umfazi akhathele ngakumbi, kwaye, nokuba nefuthe elibi kumbonakalo.

Yintoni ebangela ukungabikho kwesondo?

Imiphumo yokungabikho kwesondo ingahluka kwabesetyhini abahlukeneyo. Oku kubangelwa iimpawu zomzimba kunye nendlela yokuphila. Imiphumo eqhelekileyo yokungabikho kwezesondo ngokukhawuleza kukuba:

Kwiminyaka engama-35-45 kwiminyaka yabasetyhini abaninzi kufike ixesha lokunyuka kwenzalo ngesondo - ubuninzi bezesondo. Kulo thuba abesetyhini badinga ukulala ngesini ngesini esenza umsebenzi obonakalayo, amandla kunye nomdla ebomini. Ukungabikho kwesondo kule minyaka kukhokelela kwimiphumo emibi kakhulu. Ngokutsho kweengqondo zengqondo, ukuba ibhinqa eliseneminyaka engama-35 ukuya kuma-45 ukuya kwimihla engalali ngesondo, ngoko ke kwinqanaba elincinci lithatha iingxaki zamanye amaxinzelelo kunye nemisebenzi. Oku, kukhokelela ekukhathazweni, ukukhathala, ukunganeliseki ngobomi. Abafazi abanjalo babonisa ngokukhawuleza utshintsho lwesikhumba, olubonakala lubuhlungu.

Unyaka ngaphandle kokwabelana ngesondo kunokukhokelela umfazi emva kweminyaka engama-35 ukuphazamiseka kwamanzi, kwiingxaki zempilo. Ngoko ke, ukuba umfazi akafuni ukulala ngesondo, ngoko kufuneka axubushe ingcali. Ukuqalisa kwakhona ubudlelwane bezocansi phakathi kwabatshatileyo kunokunceda ukuphumla okude, ngexesha apho zonke iingxaki kunye nokukhathazeka zivela kwimvelaphi. Umfazi onesizungu kufuneka ahlanganyele kwimidlalo esebenzayo kunye nokudansa. ImiDlalo, ama-oriental okanye amabhola e-ballroom avumela nawuphi na umfazi ukuba azive ekhangayo. Iimvumi zomculo zinganciphisa ukuxhatshazwa kwaye zisebenze njengokukhutshwa ngokwesondo.