Ukukhuliswa kwabantwana kweminyaka 2-3

Iminyaka emibini emva komntwana ubunzima kakhulu, kuba uyazi ihlabathi kwaye uqala ukuqonda "wakhe". I-Kid isivele ibonisa umlingiswa wayo, iyabonakala kwaye izama ukuyila. Ukukhulisa umntwana kwiminyaka engama-2-3 kwenza iimfuno ezizodwa kubazali:

1. Kubaluleke kakhulu ngeli xesha ukubonisa uthando, ukukhathazeka nokudumisa umntwana.
2. Ngexesha elifanayo, qiniseka ukuyibeka isakhelo esinzima - ukuba into ayinakwenzeka, ayikwazi ukuba yinto.
3. Imfundo efanelekileyo yabantwana kwiminyaka engama-2-3, kufuneka uhambisane nolawulo - luyalungiswa kakuhle.
4. Vumela inkunzi ukuba ifunde ihlabathi ngokuzenzekelayo, zama kwaye wenze iimpazamo, kodwa qwalasela izinto eziphathekayo zeli xesha kwaye uqinisekise ukuba umntwana akalimele.
5. Kubaluleke kakhulu emva kweminyaka emibili yokulungelelanisa kwihlabathi elijikelezayo, fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba axubushe kunye noontanga.
6. Musa ukuphula umthetho umntwana, ungamxabanga okanye umthuke.
7. Zama ukusho ngaphantsi "cha", endaweni yoko, nikela umntwana ukuba akhethe, kwaye ukuba oko akunakwenzeka, cacisa isizathu sokuvinjelwa ngolwimi olufikeleleke kuye.

Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ngeli xesha umntwana ukopisha abanye ngokukodwa. Ngoko ke, ukufundisa kakuhle umntwana kwiminyaka emi-2, kubalulekile ukuba abazali baziphatha ngokufanelekileyo, inkunzi iya kuphinda iphinde iphindwe ngokuziphatha kwayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bathetha ntoni. Kwaye ku futshane neminyaka emithathu, oomama abaninzi banzima nakakhulu - emva koko, kufike inkathazo yexesha. Umntwana uzibonakalise kweli hlabathi, uzama ukubonisa ukuzimela.

Iimpawu zeengxaki ezintathu iminyaka

Ngeengxaki eziza kuthi:

• inkani ;
• unobuncati;
• indlela yokuvukela;
• zikhwaza.

Ukukhulisa umntwana kwiminyaka emithathu kudinga umonde omkhulu. Zama ukuphepha iingxabano kwaye udla ngokuguqulela yonke into emdlalweni, ngale ndlela kulula kakhulu ukufezekisa into evela kwinkani encinci.

Yintoni ekujonga ngayo xa ukhulisa abantwana kwiminyaka engama-2-3

Kule minyaka, kusebenze ukuba kusebenze:

• ukuqeqeshwa kwezakhono zobuntu;
• phuhliso lomzimba;
• imithetho yoqhagamshelwano;
• imfundiso yokomoya kunye neyokuziphatha ngokuziqhelanisa;
• khuthaza uncedo lwasekhaya.

Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukunceda umntwana ukuba aqonde ubulili bakhe. Kule nto umntwana uvakalelwa umahluko phakathi kwamakhwenkwe namantombazana. Kwaye imfundo ifanele ihluke kwiminyaka emibini. Yenza intlonelo ngakumbi kwintombazana kwaye ungamememeza. Kwimfundo yenkwenkwana yeminyaka engama-2-3, nayo, ineempawu zayo. Bonke oomama bafuna ukuba akhulele indoda, kodwa oku akudingeki ukuba uqine kakhulu naye. Kule minyaka le nkwenkwe idinga kakhulu uthando lwakho kunye nodumo. Ungalokothi uhlazise okanye ubethe unyana, khuthaza iinzame zakhe zokufunda ihlabathi, ngokuqinisekileyo wamkele iimpazamo zakhe kunye namadolo aphukileyo.

Kwaye into ephambili efunekayo kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-2-3 yintando kunye nokunyamekela. Eyona nto ingcono - kunye nomntwana wakho uya kukhula kakuhle.