Ngamanye amaxesha imikhosi yemihla engazibalekiyo kufuneka ihlehliselwe ixesha elihle ngakumbi. Kodwa kutheni unokubhiyozela nantoni na oyithandayo kusengaphambili, ngaphandle kwosuku lokuzalwa, olungenakudluliselwa kumhla wangaphambili? Kuthiwa ukuba le nto imbi, kodwa oko bathembisa ukuba bayigubha ukukholisa iinkolelo zokuqala zabantu - funda.
Kutheni ungabhiyozeli usuku lokuzalwa kusengaphambili?
Kukho iinkcazo ezininzi zeenkolelo ezinjalo. Iyokuqala idibaniswe nembono yobomi, njengekota ekufuneka uyenze into ethile. Kwaye ezama ukugubha ngokulandelayo ukukhula kancinci ngaphambili, umntu uthi uloyiko lwakhe lokungahlali kususela kwithuba elithile. Yingakho bethetha ukuba awukwazi ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa kusengaphambili ngenxa yokuba kunokufa kwangaphambili. Kakade, esi sizathu sinokwenza kuphela umahluko kulabo bakholelwa ukuba yonke into isithumela umqondiso kwi-Universe.
Enye inkcazo, kutheni ungabhiyozeli usuku lokuzalwa kusengaphambili, luyinto engacacanga ngakumbi. Kukho inkolelo yokuba imimoya yokhokho ikhangelelanisa nganye inzala yabo, kwaye ibhiyozele ngamnye unyaka omtsha wobomi. Ngoko ke, ukuba iholide inqunywe ngaphambili, abayi kuba nexesha lokusela indebe enxilayo kwaye bayanyanyiswa. Yintoni enokuyilindela kumoya okhubekileyo? Kakade ke, zonke iintlobo zeengxaki ezikulo nyaka ozayo. Ngendlela, isebenza kwimeko apho umbhiyozo ubhiyozelwa kamva.
Abo bangakholelwa kwiimvumi kunye nemithetho yehlabathi banokuchaza isizathu sokuba bengabhiyozeli umhla wokuzalwa kwangaphambili, ngenjongo ekhethekileyo yalo mhla. Ukuqala konyaka omtsha wobomi kuba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu, esenza sikwazi ukuqwalasela ibakala elidlulileyo. Ngoko ukuba ususa ieholide, ingqwalasela iya kutshintshela ekubhiyozeni, kwaye ukucinga ukuba kufuneka kubangele ukukhangela
Kuvela ukuba zonke izingozi ezithembisa ukugubha phambili ukunyuka kwazo, zineenkcazo ezicacileyo kuphela. Yaye ukuba unomntu onengqiqo, oko akunazi nto kuwe, kwaye zonke iimeko ezingathandekiyo emva kwezenzo ezinjalo zingabandakanywa kwizivumelwano eziqhelekileyo. Enyanisweni, kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba akukho mqondiso omnye onokuthi ubhiyozele usuku lokuzalwa kwangaphambili. Kodwa qwalasela ezi nkolelo okanye cha, khetha kuphela wena.