Abantu baya ecaweni ukufumana uncedo kunye neengcebiso. Amaphupha apho umbingeleli ethatha inxaxheba kuthathwa njengengqiqo, abaninzi banokuqiniseka ukuba le miyalezo yeMandla ePhakamileyo. Ukuze uchaze ngokuchanekileyo oko wakubonayo, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha zephupha.
Yintoni iphupha likayise?
Iingcamango ozibonile umbingeleli, zizathu zokucinga, oko kukuthi, lixesha lokucinga ngazo zonke izinto ezenziwe, mhlawumbi ukhubeka kwenye indawo? Ukuba ubona ukuba umbingeleli unqabile kwaye uphekisa ngento ethile - oku kuwuphawu lokuba ingozi enkulu neengxaki ziphambi kwakho. Ingxoxo ethempileni ibonisa ukuqala kwexesha lokutshintshwa kwesenzo esinqumayo. Ukuba uphupha ngecawa kunye nomfundisi oqhuba inkonzo, ngoko kwixesha elizayo kufuneka ube ngumlingani, njengoko ingozi yesifo kunye neengqondo ezinamandla zanda. Umfundisi ongenalucalulo uyisilumkiso sokuba umntu onokukuchaphazela.
Abanye abantu banomdla kulowo utata, othethiyo kwaye uyasikelela, amaphupha. Kule meko, iphupha libonisa ukuphuhliswa kweemeko eziyinkimbinkimbi, kuya kuphuma kuphela kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kolwazi oluchaphazelayo. Inkonzo ecaweni iya kwiilwimi ezingenakuqondakala kuwe - isimboli sokwenza impazamo echaphazela ubomi. Ukuba uphupha ukuba uthandane nombingeleli, ngoko kwixesha elizayo uza kukhohliswa ngumlingane.
Kutheni uphupha intsikelelo kayise?
Iphupha elinjalo lifanekisela ukuba kungekudala uza kuba nomntu oya kuncedisa kwimeko enzima. Oku kusenokuthetha ukuba ngokukhawuleza uza kuphinda uqalise ubudlelwane nabantu abaye baxabana ixesha elide. Iphupha apho uyifumana intsikelelo uthembisa ukuphucuka okukhulu kwiimeko zakho zezemali, kwaye uya kuba nethuba lokudibana nomntu wakho.