Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, abantu baye basebenzisa izibuko kungekuphela kokusetyenziswa kwansuku zonke, kodwa kunye nokuqhuba imilingo. Kukho amaninzi amanqabile ngokuxelela izibuko, kwaye ezininzi iingqondo zihlala ziphethe isibuko esincinane apho zisebenza khona kwaye zinike iimpendulo zemibuzo evela kubantu abaphendukele kubo ngengxaki. Kutheni iipilisi zixhomekeke xa umntu efa, uya kuxelwa kule nqaku.
Kutheni ukuvala izibuko xa umntu efa?
Ndimele ndithethe ukuba le nkcubeko ikwahlulo lweenkolelo kunye nokuba siya kwiimfundiso zesonto kunye nemfundiso, abafundisi abaniki naziphi na iziphakamiso kule nqanaba. Nangona kunjalo, abemi abaqhelekileyo beyilandela iminyaka engaphezu kwekhulu kwaye abayi kukhanyela. Ukususela kwixesha elidlulileyo isibuko sasifumene nento ebalulekileyo kwaye yayingumda phakathi kwehlabathi ezimbini-eyona yehlabathi kunye nezinye ihlabathi. Oko kukuthi, ngoncedo lwakhe ungakhangela kwi-Glass Look. Ngezinye izizathu sokuba izibuko zivaliwe kumfi, kukho iinguqu ezininzi:
- Isibuko ngokwaso sichaza uhlobo lomnyango kwelinye ilizwe, elilawulwa yimikhosi emnyama. Kukholelwa ukuba emngceleni we-Glass ekhangayo umphefumlo osusiweyo sele sele udibana nabakhonzi bakaSathana kwaye baya kwenza konke ukuwuqinisa, ngokukodwa xa umntu eqaqambile kwaye enomusa ngexesha lobomi bakhe.
- Enye inguqulelo, kutheni uvale izibuko emngcwabeni, uthi umphefumlo, oshiye emzimbeni, ungasemva kweentsuku ezingama-40 kwaye unokulahleka, ungene kwiHlabathi emva kweglasi yokujonga kwaye ungaphinda uphume.
- Ndibuza ukuba iziphi izibuko zivaliwe emva kokufa komntu, umntu unokufumana impendulo malunga nokuba umphefumlo unokubona ukubonakalisa kwawo kwaye uloyike, kuba kukho uluvo lokuba abaninzi abaqondi ukuba sele befile.
- Yaye inguqu yakutshanje, kutheni uvale izibuko, xa indlu iswele, isichazwa ngokubhekiselele kubantu abaphilayo. Kukholelwa ukuba umphefumlo womntu ofileyo ungabonwa kwisibuko, kwaye oku kubi kakhulu.
Kucelwa ukuba uthembisa ukufa ngokukhawuleza.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, abantu bahlala bekhuselekile kwaye badlala amahlaya ngokufa, nangona bengakholelwa kuyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, le siko sinembewu yengqiqo, emva kokuba sonke isibuko sidalwe ukuzongamela, ukunyamekela ukubonakala kwayo, kwaye ngexesha lokulungiselela imingcwabo kwaye emva koko emva kwayo akusilo ngokwalo: lixesha lokulahleka kunye nemithandazo kwaye mhlawumbi ihlazo kwaye Kuyinto engathandekiyo kweli xesha ukuba uphumelele kwaye unakekele ubuhle bakho. Ngoko ke, izibuko zisiwe? Ukuze ungabikhohlisi abathandekayo uze ubavumele ukuba balandele ngokwaneleyo umntu ohambeyo ngendlela yokugqibela.