Ukuchithwa kwamagama okuchanekileyo, ngokufanelekileyo kunye nezivakalisi ezenziwe ngokufanelekileyo, kunye nokukwazi ukunxibelelana nabantu bachaza umntu njengomntu. Iingcali zengqondo ziye zabonisa ukuba i-25% yombono wokuqala womntu kuxhomekeke ekubeni uyakwazi ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo, yingako kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokuthetha ngokufanelekileyo kwaye kakuhle.
Indlela yokufunda ukuthetha nabantu ngokuchanekileyo?
Masizame ukufumanisa indlela yokufunda ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo, ngokwemveli nangokuchanekileyo:
- Ungasebenzisi amagama angamazwi . Le ngxaki ifumaneka kwisizukulwana esincinane. Abantu abaselula bayasetyenziselwa ukusebenzisa amagama e-slang ebomini babo ukuze banokubasebenzisa ngokungazibandakanyi, ngokomzekelo, kwingxoxiswano kunye neqela labo amaphupha abo, oko kungabonakalisa impembelelo yabaqeshi.
- Soloko ubeka isigxina ngokuchanekileyo! Ndiyavuma ukuba akumnandi kakhulu ukuphulaphula intetho edibeneyo ngokuchithwa kakubi kwamagama. Iphutha eliqhelekileyo ligama elithi "amasongo". Ngoko, umntu onobhaliso akanakuze athi "zvonit", uya kubeka uxinzelelo kwi-syllable yesibini.
- Lahla amagama-ama-parasites . Ngaba wakha waphawula ukuba u-interlocutor wakho wayesebenzise kangakanani kwiintetho zakhe zentshukumo ezinjenge-"mfutshane", "njenge", "uhlobo", njalo njalo? Ndiyavuma, akuyithandi kakhulu ukuphulaphula ibali eliba ngamazwi anjalo. Ukuze wenze intetho yakho ibhalwe ngokucacileyo kwaye imnandi ngendlebe, uya kuyifuna malunga neveki ezimbini. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukubeka injongo ekuqheleni le mkhuba embi!
- Njalo qhayisa iilwimi . Ukuphinda ungathuli kwaye ungagcini, ukukhangela amagama afanelekileyo, zama ukufunda ngakumbi kunye nokuthetha nabantu. Umntu onolwazi uhlala enento into ekuthethayo, kuyamnceda ukumphulaphula kunye naye, okubaluleke ngokwenene, kuyavuya ukuthetha.
- Ungasebenzisi amagama angaphandle kumazwi . Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba umntu kufuneka ahlangabezane nezinye iilwimi emsebenzini, uqala ukusebenzisa amagama angaphandle kumazwi akhe. Kule meko, kufuneka uqaphele xa usebenzisana nabanye abantu.
Ngendlela efanelekileyo ukuthetha kwifowuni?
Unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo, ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo komntu kwifowuni, uthetha ngesantya sokuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye nokukhuliswa. Umntu kwenye indawo ekupheleni kwentambo akayi kukwazi ukubukeka kwakho, kodwa ngendlela yoqhagamshelwano iya kuba ngumfanekiso othile. Kwaye kubalulekile ukuba lo mfanekiso ubonisa kuphela izinto zakho ezilungileyo.
Ngoko, ukuba uthethe kakuhle kwifowuni, kubalulekile ukulandela le migaqo elandelayo:
- Iingxoxo zoshishino kufuneka ziqale ekuseni. Ixesha elifanelekileyo lokumisela intlanganiso okanye ukuxoxa ngeenkcukacha ezibalulekileyo ukususela ngo-10: 00 ukuya ku-13: 00. Ngeli xesha, umzimba wethu usebenze kwaye uphume amandla.
- Bhala ngokukhawuleza inombolo yocingo, ngaphandle koko ubeka umngcipheko wokungena kwi-hamovatogo interlocutor,
kwaye oku kungonakalisa isimo sengqondo. - Xa ufikelela komnye umntu, ungazami ukumxelela ngokukhawuleza yonke into oyifunayo. Okokuqala zichaze ngokwakho, vumela umntu ekupheleni ukuba azi ukuba ngubani othetha naye. Qinisekisa ukuxelela naluphi na umbutho ovela kuwo kwaye ucacise indlela okufanelekileyo ngayo ukulungisa umdibaniselwano nokuba ingaba yinikile ukuba akhulume ngoku. Kwaye emva kokuba uvakalise i-essential call call.
- Thetha ngomvakalelo, ngokulungelelaniswa. Khumbula ukuba intetho ochaza ngayo amagama ngokuqhelekileyo iphumelele ngakumbi kunamagama ngokwawo.
- Unganqikazi ukuthetha ngokuncoma, kwaye khumbula ukuba intetho yocingo iyincoko, kwaye kufuneka unikwe ithuba lokufaka amagama kunye nomnxibelelwano.
Ukufunda indlela efanelekileyo, ukunxibelelana nabantu kunye nabaphathi, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde indlela yokuthetha ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amagama angama-slang, amagama aphilileyo kunye nolungiselelo oluchanekileyo lwamanqaku okubhala.