Ingane yakho sele iguqule iminyaka emi-2 ubudala. Kulo nyaka, umntwana unokuthatha inxaxheba kwiholide phantsi kolawulo lwabantu abadala. Abazali ngokwenene bafuna ukwenza umntwana wakho wokuzalwa ngomhla wesi-2 uqaqambile kwaye awunakulibaleka, kwaye oku kufuneka uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye nomzamo.
Cinga indlela yokugubha ngokufanelekileyo ukuzalwa komntwana kwiminyaka emi-2.
Iingcinga zeeholide
Xa kulungiswa umbhiyozo, umntu makangacingisise ngexesha lokuzalwa komntwana.
Ukuba ebusika okanye ngasekupheleni kwekwindla, kukulungele ukuhlela iplanga elihle ekhaya kunye nabahlobo kunye nezihlobo. Umzekelo, khetha umbala obomvu okanye obomvu kwaye uyihobise igumbi ngeebhola, iintyatyambo, i-napkins, faka izitya zalo mthunzi. Xa ukhetha isambatho somntu wokuzalwa, ugxininiso luphezu kwengubo emfusa.
Izifundo ezahlukeneyo zinokukhethwa kwi-cartoon oyikhonzile. Yiza ngebali malunga neLuntika okanye iPig Pig. Unokufumana igama leentyatyambo okanye isityalo, esingaba ngumxholo wokuzalwa komntwana.
Ngenani elikhulu labantwana abamenyweyo kunye nabantu abadala, unokwenza i-banquet yokutya kwi-cafe eneentengiso. I-Clowns kunye nabalumbi nabo bayathandwa kakhulu ngoku. Kuya kuba mnandi ukurekhoda iinqwelo-vidiyo zakho iimvuthu kuzo zonke ezimenywe.
Ukuzalwa kwendalo - kumnandi kwaye akuqhelekanga
Ukuba umntwana wakho wazalwa ehlotyeni okanye entwasahlobo, ngoko unokuyihlela ipikiniki kwindawo evulekile kunye nemibutho eyahlukeneyo emnandi. Kuphi ukugubha iminyaka engama-2 yokuzalwa komntwana ehlobo, kungekhona kwendalo. Ngenxa yoko kuyimfuneko ukucinga yonke into ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuze wonke umntu azive ekhululekile kwaye ekhululekile.
Ngaphambi kokubhiyozela kufuneka ukhethe ukucoca kunye nokuhlobisa ngomxholo okhethiweyo. Qinisekisa ukuba ufike ngokuhambelana nomculo ngokuthabatha iingoma zezingane zesini.
Ngosuku lokuzalwa "lwendalo," iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zintlintiswano ziza kuqala. Umzekelo, "Amantongomane kunye namathoyizi." Amantongomane kunye namathoyizi adibeneyo emkhombeni omnye, kwaye ngokukhawuleza baqokelela ngomculo kwisinye ibhasikidi yamathoyizi, kwezinye iinqununu. Okanye ukhuphiswano "umsila kaMama".
Namhlanje, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo - ukusuka kwimibuthano yasekhaya etafuleni ukuya kwimikhosi emikhulu enemililo. Kodwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuba luphi uhlobo lweholide olukhethiweyo aluzange luyeke, into ephambili kwiimvumba zakho yinkathalo yabazali, ebonakalayo ingqalelo kunye nothando.