Ingcamango "yeemeko zentlalo" ineenkcazelo ezininzi, kodwa isitshixo asihlali singatshintshi. Leli nyathelo umntu ayenayo kwiqela, umthombo ongapheliyo ovumela ukuba uphumelele abantu kwaye ufumane ezo okanye ezinye izibonelelo. Iqoqo liqinisekisa ukuhanjiswa koluntu kwamalungu oluntu kwimimiselo emininzi.
Iyintoni isimo sezenhlalakahle?
Ubume bezentlalo yindawo yoluntu ehlala kumntu ngokubambisana. Kubalwa ngesiseko sezibonakaliso ezicacileyo kule ndawo okanye kuluntu: ukuchuma, ubuzwe, iminyaka. Eli gangatho linqunywe ngamathuba, imfundo, ukukwazi ukuziphatha koluntu. Inqobo yokuqala ingqiqo yenziwa ngumlandisi uHenry Man, kodwa igama ngokwayo lavela kwiRoma yaseMandulo. Kwiminyaka emininzi, kwakhiwa iingcaciso ezimbini:
- Isimo somthetho somntu okanye umbutho.
- Isikhundla somntu kwiqela, elichaza amalungelo akhe nemisebenzi ngokumalunga nabanye.
Iintlobo zemimiselo yoluntu
Wonke umntu ovela ekuzalweni akanalo isimo sentlalo yomntu: umfundi, intombi, umzukulu, udade, ilungu leqela. Olu hlobo lulunceda abantu basebenzisane, luchaza isangqa soxanduva lokuthobela imithetho. Izazi zentlalo zihlukanisa iintlobo ezintathu zezithuba zentlalo:
- Uzalwe : ubulili, ubuhlanga, ubuzwe.
- Ifunyenwe okanye ifumaneke : inqanaba lomntu elithathayo, ngeendleko zakhe.
- Icetywayo : indawo kwiqela, elihlala kuyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumnqweno: ubudala, isikhundla kwintsapho.
Ukuchonga isimo sezenzo zomntu, iimpawu ezinjalo ziphuhliswa:
- propati;
- phu melela;
- indlela yokuphila;
- kwimfundo;
- mvelaphi.
Isikhundla sezentlalo esicacisiwe
Isikhundla esinqunyiwe somntu sifumaneka ngexesha lokuzalwa, asinakuguqulwa ngokomzimba, ngaphandle kwesondo. Oku kuquka ulwalamano lwentsapho - unyana, umzalwana okanye umalume, umntu uhlala ebomini. I-status yoluntu efumanekayo iquka izixhobo ezichaseneyo, yile ndawo umntu ethatha kuluntu okanye kwintsapho. Umxholo othi "umyeni" okanye "umfazi" ubhekisela kulwalamano lwentsapho, kodwa ungene kwindawo efunyenweyo.
Ukuqwalasela onke amalungiselelo akhoyo, umntu ngamnye uzimisela isikhundla esona sikhulu esinqumayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ixhala malunga nomsebenzi wezakhono okanye isimo sezentlalo. Kule meko ukungahambelani kunokuvela, izazinzululwazi ziqikelela ii-2 ezi ziimeko:
- Ukuba umntu kwelinye iqela liphezulu, kwaye kwelinye - elincinane.
- Ukuba amagunya kunye noxanduva oluxhomekeke kumgangatho omnye liphazamisa ukuzaliseka kwazo kwelinye.
Ufikeleleke kwisimo senhlalakahle
Ukufezekiswa kwimo yentlalo yinto umntu afeze ngayo ngemigudu yawo: usekela, upolitiki, uprofesa, umphandi. Oku akusebenzi nje kuphela kwimpumelelo, inkcazo "yokungenamakhaya" okanye "vagabond" ibhekisela kweli xesha. Imeko yentlalo ichaza ukuziphatha komntu, ukukwazi ukuthetha, ukugqoka, ukuthetha. Ngokuqhelekileyo kunzima kubantu ukuba badibanise imimiselo eyahlukileyo, kunzima ukuba umama onobuhle ahlale eyaziwayo ibhinqa le shishini, uxanduva luqala ukungquzulana, kwaye umntu kufuneka enze ukhetho olungelula kwaye luhle, kodwa awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwalo.
Phantse zonke iimeko zentlalo yoluntu zifikelelekile:
- kwimpi-epaulettes;
- ogqirha baneengubo ezimhlophe;
- izigebengu zinamathotho.
Iimeko zentlalo kunye nendima enxulumene nentlalo njani?
Ezentlalo, isimo sezenhlalakahle kunye nendima yentlalontle ayinxulumene ngokuthe ngqo. Inxaxheba yentlalo ngumzekelo wokuziphatha ohambelana nesimo, ngokuqwalasela iimfuno zeqela. Ngeli-19 leminyaka, ihlabathi eliphakamileyo lalifuna ukuthobela ngokuthe ngqo umgangatho othile, ukuba umntu akenzanga oku, ukungawuthobeli indima yentlalo, waphinde walahlekelwa ngumgangatho wakhe kuluntu. Ukuba intloko yentsapho inyanzelekile ukuba inikezele ngezihlobo, kodwa ayikwazi ukuhlangabezana nale nxaxheba, ngoko idlulela kwelinye umntu kwisangqa sezihlobo.
Ubume bezentlalo kunye nempilo yoluntu
Izazi zentlalo zibiza impilo yentlalo kubaluleke kakhulu-imeko yombutho, ebonisa ukuba umntu unxibelelwano noluntu. Yenziwa ngexesha lobomi, ngaphantsi kweempembelelo zabazali, abahlobo, abafunda nabo kunye nabo basebenzisana nabo, ngelixa bekunye isimo somntu womntu. Kukho ezimbini ezibalulekileyo iinkalo zentlalo yoluntu:
- Ukuziphatha: iimpawu zokuziphatha nokuziphatha kunye neempawu zokuziphatha komntu.
- Imilinganiselo emsebenzini: imigaqo yomphathi, ophantsi.
Indlela yokuphucula isimo sezentlalo?
Abantu abaninzi bafuna ukufumana indawo ephakamileyo yoluntu, enomnqweno wemvelo womntu. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukutshintsha isimo sezenzo zomntu? Ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa lo msebenzi awunamnyaka owodwa, udinga umzamo omkhulu. Iziphakamiso ezimbalwa kwizinto ezifunekayo ukuphakamisa isikhundla sabo kuluntu:
- Ukuphucula ukuzithemba . Ukuchonga iimpawu ezintle zobuntu, ukusuka kwindleko ukuya kwikhono lokugqoka nokuziphatha, zama ukulungisa utshintsho.
- Nika ingqalelo ekuphuhlisweni komzimba . Bhalisa kwicandelo okanye ngo-fitness, ungakhetha umdlalo, owaziwayo kwimibutshane, apho ndingathanda ukujikeleza khona.
- Yenza isicwangciso sokuphuhliswa kwengqondo . Ukuchonga uluhlu lwemyuziyamu olufanelekile ukutyelela, iincwadi-ukufunda, iifilimu - ukubona. Ukhetho lufanele lwenziwe ekukhanyeni kwezinto ezithandayo kuluntu olukhethiweyo. Ingakumbi umntu uyazi kwaye uyazi, iphakamileyo imeko yakhe yentlalo.
- Sebenza ngelizwi nangesiqendu . Kungcono ukufuna iingcebiso zobuchwepheshe.
- Ukunqoba ukwesaba kwentlalo . Ukwenza abantu abatsha kwiintlanganiso okanye amaqela, amakhonsathi, ukuhlanganisana okuthakazelisayo. Unokuqala ngoqhagamshelwano oluqinileyo kwiiforam ezifanelekileyo, oku kuya kunceda ukufumana amava kunye nokuphepha iimpazamo ebomini bokwenene.