Ukucoca kunxulumene nokuhlanjululwa nokukhululwa kwezinto ezingadingekile. Iingcamango zinentsingiselo efanayo, apho le nkqubo ithatha khona. Ukufumana iinkcukacha ezingaphezulu, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha zesalathisi.
Sisiphi isizathu sokucoca?
Ukuba kwakufuneka uphume eofisini, kufuneka ulindele ukutshintshwa kwendawo yomsebenzi. Umbono ebusuku, apho kwakufuneka ukuba uhlambulule udoti kwisitrato, ubeka umntu umnqweno wokuseka ubudlelwane nabantu abakujikelezile. Ukucocwa kwamangcwaba ephupheni kuthetha ityala elizayo kwaye, mhlawumbi, liza kuxhalabisa ukwahlula kwepropati. Iphupha lokucoca ikhephu edibaneni lithetha ukuba ngobomi bokwenene ixesha elininzi kunye namandla kusebenza. Ukuba sakwazi ukujonga indlela omnye umntu asusa ngayo, ngoko umcuphi usebenzise abanye abantu ukuxazulula iingxaki zakhe.
Yintoni ebonakala ngathi ukucoca kwindlu?
Ukuba kwakufuneka uhlambulule intwasahlobo ephupheni, kufuneka ulungiselele utshintsho olunzulu ebomini, kwaye baya kuba ngcono. Iphupha, apho ngexesha lokucoca kufuneka litshintshe iwebhu, lenza umntu abe nomnqweno wokuseka ubudlelwane nabathandekayo. Olunye uguqulelo oludumile lwalolu phupha luphawu lweengxaki eziqokelelweyo. Ukuba ukucocwa kubangela iimvakalelo ezintle, kwaye isiphumo sinelisekisa konke okulindelweyo-lo luphawu oluhle, olubonisa utshintsho oluhle.
Yintoni ebonakalayo ukucoca kwindlu?
Iphupha elinjalo linga kuthathwa ukuze licebise ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuhlaziya izimvo zomntu kunye nokubeka izinto eziphambili kwizinto eziphambili.
Kutheni uphupha ukucoca indlu yomnye umntu?
Umbono ololo busuku kuthetha ukuba kungekudala kubalulekile ukulindela iindaba ezimbi eziya kuchaphazela imicimbi yangoku. Ukuba ufanele utshaye inkunkuma kwindlu yomnye umntu, lowo uphuphayo uchitha ixesha elide ukuxazulula iingxaki zabanye abantu, ngenxa yokuba abantu abasondeleyo bahluphekileyo.